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EPISODE · Jan 20, 2026 · 25 MIN

Lies We Tell Ourselves: When You Believe You’re Hard to Love

from Lost Loverboy Podcast · host Demetri Wiley

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Demetri unpacks the quiet belief so many of us carry that we are “too much,” “not enough,” or simply hard to love. He explores the origins of that story, how past relationships and unmet needs shape our self-worth, and why believing this lie keeps us disconnected from the love we desire. This is a conversation about unlearning shame, embracing self-compassion, and allowing yourself to be loved without needing to perform or shrink.Viewer discretion is advised for this love-themed podcast. The content may contain discussions of sensitive topics related to relationships, dating, and love. Some content may not be suitable for all listeners, especially those uncomfortable with open and vulnerable conversations. We encourage our listeners to practice self-care and to reach out to a trusted friend or professional if they need support. If you have no friends, you have me! Welcome to the Lost Loverboy Podcast!Support the showJoin the Lover's House Discord to connect with Demetri Wiley and fellow enthusiasts! Share your experiences, seek advice, and celebrate romance within a welcoming community. Don't miss out—join us today: https://discord.com/servers/the-lovers-house-1345240227538538617You can also purchase Lost Loverboy merchandise at https://demetriwiley.com/shop

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Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Demetri unpacks the quiet belief so many of us carry that we are “too much,” “not enough,” or simply hard to love. He explores the origins of that story, how past relationships and unmet needs shape our self-worth, and why believing this lie keeps us disconnected from the love we desire. This is a conversation about unlearning shame, embracing self-compassion, and allowing yourself to be loved without needing to perform or shrink. Viewer discretion is advised...

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