Listener question: am I just an AI robot?

Listener question: If there's no decision maker and a learned programme is simply being acted out, how do we differ from an AI robot? We can watch the robot running it's programme just as we can watch our own programme running and we can watch the programme changing as the system learns. NLP is all about accelerating change within the neurological programme, a reprogramming of the system (presumably by another programme as there's no doer).So, what does it mean to be human? We're aware that we're aware of course, but if we have no choices then there's a sense of so what?  How do I actually differ from an AI or even from my dog? Are we simply a more intelligent AI vs other animals or certain robots?