Listener question: present no self accountability

Listener question: I know you've talked before about no self accountability, so I assume that's what you mean.  I'm not sure how it applies?  Do you mean to take NSA for the things that are looking true and real to me that are creating suffering?  I get that when we see something in our past where we've made a mistake we can apologize without any self blame as we acted according to the program running at that time but now see it for what it was, but I can only see how this applies when something falls away, but not what seems true in the present.  Does that make sense?  What does present day accountability look like?