Live In Love | In Case You Forgot - Keep Forgiving - Matthew 18:21-35 - Clint Leavitt

This week is the last message in the Live in Love sermon series, and to complete the series we look to Matthew 18:21-35, where Jesus tells the parable of the unforgiving servant, challenging us to reconsider what we think we know about forgiveness. Clint opens the message with a haunting reminder from Charleston in 2015, where grieving families spoke words of forgiveness that stunned the world. The core revelation here is staggering: each of us carries an unpayable debt before God, like owing 164 years of daily wages, yet God's character is defined by forgiveness so complete that He tears up the ledger entirely. We learn that forgiveness is not amnesia, not pretending nothing happened, and not excusing evil. Instead, it's a costly act where someone must absorb the loss, and in the cross, Christ absorbs our debt so fully that we're freed to extend that same mercy to others. The sermon walks us through a practical four-step process: tell the story, name the hurt, grant forgiveness, and renew or release the relationship. The transformative truth is this: the extent to which we can forgive others is directly connected to how deeply we understand we've been forgiven. When we refuse to forgive, we imprison ourselves in bitterness and self-obsession. Heaven is filled with forgiven sinners who receive and extend mercy; hell is filled with forgiven sinners who refuse it. We're left with a choice that shapes our entire existence.