LIVE Q&A // Brené Brown, we’re calling bullsh*t on your Family Gap Plan!

from Upbringing · host Hannah + Kelty

Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast through the rest of the year, using the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this week:- Brené Brown’s Family Gap Plan + why we find it problematic- How we’re attempting to create shame-free family manifestos- The #1 way to prepare/arm kids for the cruel outside world- What to do when grandparents demand “respect” from our kids- When kids are given a choice and refuse both options!- When kids’ school has different cultural expectations of kids than home- What is childism? Adultism?- How parenting is a slow growth process and that’s OK!- Alternatives to saying a kids’ name sternly when they’re doing something we don’t want- How to use the “helpful follow-through” when kids resist- The power of the “circle back” when things don’t go the way we’d likeTune in and connect on our LIVE Q&As, every Tuesday AND Thursday at 5PM PST on Instagram. Catch up on past LIVE session on our IGTV tab. As always, we laugh, we cry, we lean in… join us!Relevant Links:- Our Freedoms Model\- Our RESIST Approach- Our Shop - GUIDES + PRINTS!- Our Resources Page- Our Coaching page- Amber Okamura, Upbringing’s Artist- Mary Schroeder, Upbringing’s Letterer- Alex Olavarria, our producer, musician, editor + husband/brother in lawVisit our website, www.upbringing.co to learn more about us and sign up for our newsletter! We want to hear your thoughts. We care deeply about what you think and how you’re doin’, so get in touch -- we’re better together.Email us: [email protected] Upbringing on Instagram: @upbringing.coJoin us to connect about: Parenting, spirited kids, sensitive kids, progressive parenting, progressive discipline, resist, discipline, parenting podcast, RIE, Feminism, Feminist Parenting, RIE parenting, toddlers, tantrums, mindful parenting, Upbringing twins, Hannah and Kelty, conscious parenting, motherhood, positive parenting, mom podcast, respectful parenting, simplicity parenting, positive discipline, janet lansbury, creative parenting, child developmentDisclaimer: Hannah & Kelty are parenting coaches and do not work in a professional therapist’s or MD capacity to diagnose or treat mental health disorders. They cannot advise parents on issues such as drug addiction, eating disorders, self-harm, severe psychiatric disorders, child abuse, assault, etc.Join us to explore topics such as: parenting, motherhood, discipline, resistance, RIE parenting, feminist parenting, toddlers, tantrums, potty training, mindful parenting, conscious parenting, evidence-based parenting, positive parenting, respectful parenting, simplicity parenting and positive discipline.

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Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast through the rest of the year, using the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this week: - Brené Brown’s Family Gap Plan + why we find it problematic - How we’re attempting to create shame-free family manifestos - The #1 way to prepare/arm kids for the cruel outside world - What to do when grandparents demand “respect” from our kids - When kids are given a choice and refuse both options! - When kids’ school has different cultural expectations of kids than home - What is childism? - How parenting is a slow growth process and that’s OK! - Alternatives to saying a kids’ name sternly when they’re doing something we don’t want - How to use the “helpful follow-through” when kids resist - The power of the “circle back” when things don’t go the way we’d like Tune in and connect on our LIVE Q&As, every Tuesday AND Thursday at 5PM PST on Instagram. Catch up on past LIVE session on our IGTV tab. As always, we laugh, we cry, we lean in… join us! Relevant Links: - Our Freedoms Model - Our RESIST Approach - Our Shop - GUIDES + PRINTS! - Our Resources Page - Our Coaching page - Amber Okamura, Upbringing’s Artist - Mary Schroeder, Upbringing’s Letterer - Alex Olavarria, our producer, musician, editor + husband/brother in law Visit our website, www.upbringing.co to learn more about us and sign up for our newsletter! We want to hear your thoughts. We care deeply about what you think and how you’re doin’, so get in touch -- we’re better together. Email us: [email protected] Follow Upbringing on Instagram: @upbringing.co Join us to explore topics such as: parenting, motherhood, discipline, resistance, RIE parenting, feminist parenting, toddlers, tantrums, potty training, mindful parenting, conscious parenting, evidence-based parenting, positive parenting, respectful parenting, simplicity parenting and positive discipline.

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