LIVE Q&A // Kids saying “NO” to everything, arguing, hitting, throwing + stalling at bedtime

from Upbringing · host Hannah + Kelty

Today on our LIVE Q&A SERIES we talked about:- Kid angry mom won’t play with him so he trashes the playroom- 6 year old argues and says NO to everything- 10 year old constantly arguing- The power of validation- How to set limits with hitting + throwing- We we look beyond behaviors to the underlying need- Overwhelmed 3 year old won’t respect personal boundaries- 4 year old won’t eat at dinnertime - Parent keeps yelling when they can’t self-regulate- The power of the “circle back” to mend + teach- Kid gets more angry when parent tries to help- Kid refuses to go to a doctor appt.- Kid stalling during bedtime- How to get both parent + child’s needs met- Unconsolable non-verbal kid melting down- How to channel calm, sensitive support staff vibes- Worrisome little boy behavior re: consent- We read “In Our Family” 18 IntentionsTune in and connect on our LIVE Q&As, every Tuesday AND Thursday at 5PM PST on Instagram. Catch up on past LIVE session on our IGTV tab. As always, we laugh, we cry, we lean in… join us!Relevant Links:- Our Freedoms Model- Our RESIST Approach- Our Shop - GUIDES + PRINTS!- Our Resources Page- Our Coaching page- Amber Okamura, Upbringing’s Artist- Mary Schroeder, Upbringing’s Letterer- Alex Olavarria, our producer, musician, editor + husband/brother in lawVisit our website, www.upbringing.co to learn more about us and sign up for our newsletter! We want to hear your thoughts. We care deeply about what you think and how you’re doin’, so get in touch -- we’re better together.Email us: [email protected] Upbringing on Instagram: @upbringing.coJoin us to connect about: Parenting, spirited kids, sensitive kids, progressive parenting, progressive discipline, resist, discipline, parenting podcast, RIE, Feminism, Feminist Parenting, RIE parenting, toddlers, tantrums, mindful parenting, Upbringing twins, Hannah and Kelty, conscious parenting, motherhood, positive parenting, mom podcast, respectful parenting, simplicity parenting, positive discipline, janet lansbury, creative parenting, child developmentDisclaimer: Hannah & Kelty are parenting coaches and do not work in a professional therapist’s or MD capacity to diagnose or treat mental health disorders. They cannot advise parents on issues such as drug addiction, eating disorders, self-harm, severe psychiatric disorders, child abuse, assault, etc.

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Today we kick off our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast through the rest of the year, using the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this week: - Kid angry mom won’t play with him so he trashes the playroom - 6 year old argues and says NO to everything - 10 year old constantly arguing - The power of validation - How to set limits with hitting + throwing - We we look beyond behaviors to the underlying need - Overwhelmed 3 year old won’t respect personal boundaries - 4 year old won’t eat at dinnertime - Parent keeps yelling when they can’t self-regulate - The power of the “circle back” to mend + teach - Kid gets more angry when parent tries to help - Kid refuses to go to a doctor appt. - Kid stalling during bedtime - How to get both parent + child’s needs met - Unconsolable non-verbal kid melting down - How to channel calm, sensitive support staff vibes - Worrisome little boy behavior re: consent - We read “In Our Family” 18 Intentions Tune in and connect on our LIVE Q&As, every Tuesday AND Thursday at 5PM PST on Instagram. Catch up on past LIVE session on our IGTV tab. As always, we laugh, we cry, we lean in… join us! Relevant Links: - Our Freedoms Model - Our RESIST Approach - Our Shop - GUIDES + PRINTS! - Our Resources Page - Our Coaching page - Amber Okamura, Upbringing’s Artist - Mary Schroeder, Upbringing’s Letterer - Alex Olavarria, our producer, musician, editor + husband/brother in law Visit our website, www.upbringing.co to learn more about us and sign up for our newsletter! We want to hear your thoughts. We care deeply about what you think and how you’re doin’, so get in touch -- we’re better together. Email us: [email protected] Follow Upbringing on Instagram: @upbringing.co Join us to explore topics such as: parenting, motherhood, discipline, resistance, RIE parenting, feminist parenting, toddlers, tantrums, potty training, mindful parenting, conscious parenting, evidence-based parenting, positive parenting, respectful parenting, simplicity parenting and positive discipline.

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