LIVE with The Famous Dr AL and James (Jim) Flaherty

Dr. Allen Lycka welcomes James Flaherty, a legendary innkeeper, advertising professional, and author. At 89, James shares his wisdom about living joyfully and productively in older age. He also discusses his upcoming book, Loving Longevity, and his inspiring 10-year plan for the future. Realizing the Power of Aging James' Journey: James shares how reaching age 70 was an eye-opener. Coming from a family where men typically passed away before age 65, living beyond that felt like a gift.The Hospitality Business: James recounts his time running a country inn and conference center, working 70-hour weeks to make it a success.Advice for Hard Work: James reflects on the intensity of hospitality work compared to his earlier days in advertising, noting that true success comes from passionate effort. The Joy of Work Love for Writing: After turning 80, James returned to his first passion—writing. He speaks about his decades-long career as a copywriter in New York and the fulfillment that work has brought him throughout his life.“Work is More Fun than Fun”: Quoting Noel Coward, James emphasizes that work, when done passionately, can bring more joy than anything else. Aging Cheerfully and Productively Aging with a Smile: James discusses the importance of maintaining a positive outlook as one ages. He emphasizes not retreating from life as many do in their later years.Purpose and Optimism: James highlights the value of staying engaged with life through purpose and goals, noting that every day is a gift to be fully embraced. Staying Booked and Busy Staying Active: James humorously shares George Burns' quote, “I can't die now, I'm booked,” which reflects his own approach to staying engaged in life. At 89, James maintains a busy schedule, writing books and attending speaking engagements.Fifth Book: He’s currently finishing his fifth book and believes in filling his days with meaningful activities that keep his mind and body active. Beating Depression and Finding Joy Morning Mirror Exercise: James credits his mother for teaching him the importance of starting each day with positivity. Every morning, he looks in the mirror and chooses to greet the day with a smile.Small Acts of Kindness: James and Dr. Lycka share stories of small gestures that can make a big difference in others’ lives, encouraging listeners to be kind and compassionate. The Importance of Purpose The Japanese Concept of Ikigai: Dr. Lycka introduces the concept of Ikigai, which means “purpose” in Japanese. They discuss how finding purpose is essential to living a fulfilling life. BIO: Jim Flaherty was an international advertising writer/creative director, has published two novels, and two non-fiction books. Was also creator and innkeeper of a five-star country inn/conference center. He is a frequent motivational speaker about aging cheerfully; the pain and pleasure of writing; the joy and OMG of parenting; living abroad; and embracing an ancient quip of Noel Coward: Work is more fun than fun. A strong believer you are only as old as you think, Jim thinks 89 (going on 59) is terrific, and is a father, grandfather, and great-grandfather. Home is a 1940's art-filled dairy barn in the foothills of the Berkshires. His website: <http://jamesbflaherty.com/> His fifth book (in progress) is titled: LOVING LONGEVITY I'm 89 and have a ten-year plan. Social Media: https://facebook.com/jamesbflaherty 2.    https://www.linkedin.com/in/james-b-flaherty-060743222/ 3.   https://twitter.com/jamesbflaherty 4.    https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=10009078684 5.   https://instagram.com/jamesbflaherty 6.    https://pinterest.com/jamesbflaherty 7. https://blogger.com/profile/jamesbflaherty 8. https://jamesbflaherty.blogspot.com 9.      https://www.youtube.com/@jamesbflaherty 10. https://www.amazon.com/s?k=james+b+flaherty&crid=1UUG14ONHOHBN&sprefix=james+b+flaherty%2Caps%2C142&ref=nb.sb.noss