LIVE with The Famous Dr AL and Sandra Bellamy

Guest Introduction: Guest Name: Sandra Bellamy, also known as the Asexual Entrepreneur.Notable Works: Author of "Asexual Perspectives: 47 Asexual Stories About Love, Life and Sex."Achievements: Speaker at bLU Talks in Oxford, co-author in "Business Life and the Universe, Volume 11." Key Topics Discussed: 1. Understanding Asexuality: Definition: Asexuality is a sexual orientation characterized by a lack of sexual attraction.Personal Perspective: Sandra identifies as a hetero-romantic asexual, meaning she is romantically attracted to men but does not experience sexual attraction.LGBTQ+ Inclusion: Asexuality is part of the LGBTQ+ acronym but is often misunderstood. 2. Discovering Asexuality: Personal Journey: Sandra realized she was asexual after a counseling session in 2014, leading her to research and discover asexuality.Community and Awareness: Sandra emphasizes the importance of recognizing asexuality as a valid sexual orientation globally to reduce fear and ridicule. 3. The Asexual Community: Population Statistics: Approximately 1% of the global population is asexual.Support and Resources: The online forum www.asexuality.org is a major resource for asexual individuals and their allies. 4. Asexual Perspectives Book: Content: The book answers common questions about asexuality and includes diverse personal stories from 47 asexual individuals.Purpose: To dispel myths and provide real-life examples of what it means to be asexual. 5. Misconceptions about Asexuality: Common Myths: Asexuality is often confused with celibacy or abstinence, which are choices, whereas asexuality is not a choice.Diverse Experiences: Asexuals can have different levels of comfort with sex, ranging from sex-neutral to sex-repulsed, and may engage in various sexual activities without sexual attraction. 6. Personal Boundaries and Challenges: Overcoming Fears: Sandra had to overcome shyness and fear of discussing sex openly.Mindset Mastery: Emphasizes the importance of taking action and pushing through personal fears to achieve goals. 7. Advocacy and Education: Public Speaking: Sandra's experiences with public speaking and organizing meetups have boosted her confidence and ability to advocate for asexuality.Education: Uses her platform to educate others about asexuality and promote understanding. 8. Publications and Contact Information: Books: "Diary Confessions of a Hyper Romantic Asexual: 78 Life Lessons to Ace Your Life" and "Asexual Perspectives: 47 Asexual Stories About Love, Life and Sex."Blog: www.asexualise.comYouTube: Asexualize My Asexual LifeSocial Media: Facebook (asexualized), Twitter (asexualized), Instagram (asexualized official) Final Thoughts: Courage and Action: Sandra encourages others to take action and push through fears to achieve a fulfilling life.Community Support: Highlights the importance of community support in advocating for and educating about asexuality. Contact and Further Information: Blog: Asexualise.comYouTube: Asexualise My Asexual LifeFacebook: Acexualise/Acexualise Dating/Acexualise AcademyTwitter: AsexualiseInstagram: Asexualise Official Acknowledgments: Host: Dr. Allen LyckaGuest: Sandra Bellamy For more episodes and information, visit our website and follow us on social media. Website: www.asexualise.com and sandrabellamy.com Email: [email protected] and [email protected]  Social: YouTube: www.youtube.com/asexualisemyasexuallife My Asexual Perspectives 47 Asexual Stories - Love, Life and Sex, ACElebration Of Asexual Diversity book. https://amzn.to/3Bv5DS8 My Diary Confessions Of A Hyper-romantic Asexual - 78 Life Lessons To ACE Your Life book https://amzn.to/3Y1N3K8 My Facebook pages:www.facebook.com/acexualisewww.facebook.com/acexualisedatingwww.facebook.com/acexualiseacademyTwitter (X) www.twitter.com/asexualiseInstagram www.instagram.com/asexualiseofficialLinkedIn www.linkedin.com/in/sandrabellamy