Living BIG Mini-Sode: Rupture, Repair, and Being Human

What happens when Becca and Meredith start talking before they actually start recording the podcast?Apparently…you get the podcast.In this Living BIG mini-sode, Becca and Meredith turn an ADHD-fueled conversation about Audible speeds, timers, therapy, algorithms, and floor chips into a surprisingly honest discussion about personal growth, relationships, and what it means to be human.They talk about why growth doesn’t mean showing up perfectly, how healthy relationships survive rupture through repair, and why learning to have hard conversations sometimes means accepting that not everyone is going to like you. They also reflect on owning the moments when you weren’t your best self, circling back when you can, and choosing curiosity over judgment.And when the world feels overwhelming? Becca and Meredith talk about focusing on the corner of the world you can influence—building braver people, stronger relationships, and communities where people have room to grow.Because living BIG isn’t about becoming perfectly healed.It’s about becoming more self-aware, repairing when things break, and choosing how you want to show up next.Living BIG is about creativity, courage, community, and becoming more fully yourself. Learn more at biginc.org.________________Episode Chapters00:00 ADHD, Audible & Why Everything Is Faster01:48 The Diagnosis Meredith Doesn’t Have02:02 Couples Therapy & Secondhand Therapy03:26 Can Self-Improvement Become Its Own Trap?04:28 Rupture, Repair & Stronger Relationships05:19 Being Nice vs. Being Honest06:02 Learning to Let People Not Like You07:34 Growth Means You Won’t Be for Everyone08:00 Owning the Times You Weren’t Your Best Self09:18 Repair, Reconciliation & Circling Back09:42 What the Algorithm Is Feeding Us11:15 Proof That We Actually Do Grow12:05 Wait…Was This Already the Podcast?13:02 Parenting, Big Reactions & Modeling Better14:15 Floor Chips & Choosing Your Response15:26 Life Becomes What You Choose16:06 You Can’t Control How the World Spins17:03 Control Your Corner of the World17:45 Building Braver, Stronger Communities18:01 Landing the Mini-Sode