Living in the Gap | Ep 68

Why Do You Need Her to Notice You've Changed? You've been doing the work. Staying calm when it used to wreck you. Catching the old reaction before it takes over. And she still looks at you like she's waiting to see if it's real. This episode is about the hardest part of that process, the stretch where you keep showing up differently and nothing outside of you confirms it. We'll cover: Why real change often gets no visible reaction, and why that doesn't mean it isn't working Why so many men need their wife to confirm their growth, and what that request actually asks of her A specific, practical shift for knowing you did the work, without needing her to tell you What happens to men who never learn to source this for themselves If that's where you are, join me live August 20th, 11am PT / noon MT / 1pm CT / 2pm ET, for a free webinar. Save your seat at alisastoddard.com.  Save your seat and register here: https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/open-call-registration I'd love to have you there. 🎧 Listen to all episodes at https://alisastoddard.com/podcast 💬 Want help figuring this out in your own relationship? Access my free Intimacy Training: https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/opt-in Book a Relationship Clarity Call: https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/podcast-scheduling-page Available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. Find out more at https://alisastoddard.com/