Lose-Lose or Win-Win? You decide.

Most couples avoid certain unavoidable Topics or decisions. In couples therapy, we call it crucibles, T-junctions, gridlock, 70% unsolvable issues, and more. Yet by avoiding these 'hot' issues, we are stunting our own growth. In this talk, Galit and I offer a fresh view on these lose-lose dilemmas and offer practical advice on how to lean into them in order to grow. Examples are given from the clinic and from our own drama around a drawing that was scotch-taped to the wall in my mother-in-law's house... Click here to join our mailing list and get free resources on enriching relationships every week to your inbox! Click here for more information on our upcoming online couples workshop. https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/the-other-side-relationships http://podcast.potentialstate.com/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXwdZhwQFgUcRQgZoI_L2Uw https://www.facebook.com/ThePotentialState https://twitter.com/assael Support the show