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EPISODE · Dec 11, 2025 · 37 MIN

Losing Yourself in Motherhood? Let’s Talk About It with Ashley Beatty

from Transforming 45 · host Lisa Boate

Losing Yourself in Motherhood? Let’s Talk About It with Ashley Beatty Identity. Motherhood. Who You Become. In this conversation, Lisa sits down with motherhood + self-development coach Ashley Beatty to unravel how becoming a parent reshapes every corner of your identity. They dig into the messy, beautiful, contradictory parts of motherhood, the parts most women experience but not enough talk about out loud. If you’re navigating midlife, motherhood, or rediscovering who you are, this episode brings clarity, compassion, and a few well-placed truth bombs. What You’ll Hear How motherhood completely rewires identity — and why that’s not a bad thing The real meaning of matrescence (and why more women need this word) The emotional duality of parenting: joy and frustration can coexist Why “perfect motherhood” is a trap built by societal expectations How self-awareness becomes your superpower as a parent Why open, honest conversations normalize the hard parts The ongoing journey of personal growth (yes, even after the kids aren’t little) When your child’s needs don’t match your expectations — and what to do with that How reflecting on your own story strengthens how you show up as a parent Chapters: 00:00:00 Introduction to Identity and Motherhood   00:03:00 Ashley Beatty's Journey of Self-Discovery   00:09:00 The Concept of Matrescence  00:15:00 Societal Pressures and Perfect Motherhood - 00:21:00 Balancing Dual Emotions in Parenting   00:27:00 The Importance of Open Conversations Connect with Ashley: Website Instagram Podcast - Motherhood Unveiled Let's Stay Connected: Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Got questions or feedback? Drop us a message at [email protected] Download my Free Guide - How To Reignite Your Purpose Without Feeling Overwhelmed or Guilty! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Losing Yourself in Motherhood? Let’s Talk About It with Ashley Beatty Identity. Motherhood. Who You Become. In this conversation, Lisa sits down with motherhood + self-development coach Ashley Beatty to unravel how becoming a parent reshapes every corner of your identity. They dig into the messy, beautiful, contradictory parts of motherhood, the parts most women experience but not enough talk about out loud. If you’re navigating midlife, motherhood, or rediscovering who you are, this episode brings clarity, compassion, and a few well-placed truth bombs. What You’ll Hear How motherhood completely rewires identity — and why that’s not a bad thing The real meaning of matrescence (and why more women need this word) The emotional duality of parenting: joy and frustration can coexist Why “perfect motherhood” is a trap built by societal expectations How self-awareness becomes your superpower as a parent Why open, honest conversations normalize the hard parts The ongoing journey of personal growth (yes, even after the kids aren’t little) When your child’s needs don’t match your expectations — and what to do with that How reflecting on your own story strengthens how you show up as a parent Chapters: 00:00:00 Introduction to Identity and Motherhood   00:03:00 Ashley Beatty's Journey of Self-Discovery   00:09:00 The Concept of Matrescence  00:15:00 Societal Pressures and Perfect Motherhood - 00:21:00 Balancing Dual Emotions in Parenting   00:27:00 The Importance of Open Conversations Connect with Ashley: Website Instagram Podcast - Motherhood Unveiled Let's Stay Connected: Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Got questions or feedback? Drop us a message at [email protected] Download my Free Guide - How To Reignite Your Purpose Without Feeling Overwhelmed or Guilty! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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