Love Beyond Bars - Our Journey Begins

Welcome to the very first episode of "It's Hard to Date" with your hosts, Twyla and Allen! In this inaugural show, we're pulling back the curtain on our unique relationship, with Allen joining us by phone from his incarceration.We kick things off by sharing the serendipitous story of how we met, a connection born out of loneliness and an unexpected referral that led to Twyla giving Allen her number. What started as initial curiosity quickly blossomed into an instant connection for Twyla, captivated by Allen's calm demeanor. Allen, ever the listener, was "just trying to figure [Twyla] out."The conversation delves into the fascinating reality of their relationship: they've never met in person. They explore how this unique circumstance has forged a bond rooted in genuine connection, where physical appearance and external factors take a backseat to knowing each other's hearts and spirits. They discuss the challenges and unexpected benefits of this "blind dating" experience, from recognizing each other's emotions through voice alone to building a relationship based purely on communication and understanding.Despite the hurdles of the prison system – from frustrating visiting list applications to daily struggles with limited communication – Twyla and Allen reveal their unwavering commitment. They touch on the coping mechanisms they've developed for the long nights apart and candidly address the impact of external judgment and past trust issues. This episode is a testament to the power of love, perseverance, and the belief that some connections are simply "God-made."