Love Blinders: Why Parents and Coaches See Games Differently

Send us Fan MailYou love your kid—that’s not the issue. But sometimes, that deep love can cloud how we see their role on the team. In this episode, we dive into a phenomenon I call “Love Blinders”—the emotional lens parents often wear when watching their child compete. We’ll talk honestly about why playing time decisions are more complex than they appear, how parents and coaches see games differently, and how to support your athlete in a way that builds confidence, not entitlement.We’ll break down: ✅ What “Love Blinders” are and why they’re normal ✅ The difference between the parent lens and the coach lens ✅ Five practical ways to support your athlete with clarity and perspective ✅ Why trusting the coach matters more than you think ✅ How adversity can be a powerful teacherWhether you’re a parent, coach, or both—this episode will challenge, encourage, and equip you to navigate  high school sports with a healthier mindset.Go to betteryouthcoaching.com for more ways to help your child navigate their athletic career. Welcome to Talkin' with the AD! LET'S GO!!Better Youth CoachingMission is to improve amateur sports through education of parents, coaches, and athletes Better Youth CoachingMission is to improve amateur sports through education of parents, coaches, and athletesSupport the showVisit betteryouthcoaching.com - information for parents, coaches, and athletes.SOCIALSFacebook - talkinwiththeadX - Talkin’ with the ADInstagram - talkin_with_the_adYouTube - Talkin' with the ADTik Tok - Talkin' with the AD