LOVE FEST! The Ultimatum's Luke Wesselhoff & Monica Payne Talk Growth & Goofiness - Ep 483 episode artwork

EPISODE · Aug 6, 2026 · 1H 22M

LOVE FEST! The Ultimatum's Luke Wesselhoff & Monica Payne Talk Growth & Goofiness - Ep 483

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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Shandy is excited to be joined in-studio by Monica Payne and Luke Wesselhoff from Season 4 of Netflix's The Ultimatum!Today Luke and Monica give us a peek behind The Ultimatum curtain: what didn't we see on the show, and just how accurate (or inaccurate) was their edit? We talk growth on and off the show, navigating the public's assumptions, their high school personas, their first kiss, and of course, how they fight! Finally, a Newlyweds Game that proves these two go waaaay back! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for an exclusive 20% off!- Go to https://skims.com/shandy to shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear!- Go to https://squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://oakessentials.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!More Monica:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/monicapayneeTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@monicapayneeMore Luke:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/lukaswesselhoffTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@lukeboxxxTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome Monica & Luke!1:30 - What We Didn’t See On The Show6:56 - Luke’s Journey13:36 - Monica’s Journey19:33 - Would They Be Engaged Today Without ‘The Ultimatum’23:37 - Why They Went On The Show32:00 - The Intimidation Of David/Luke’s Confidence42:16 - High School/First Kiss51:53 - Monica’s “Professionalism”57:19 - Conflict Resolution1:06:06 - The Newlyweds GameIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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