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EPISODE · Apr 14, 2026 · 10 MIN

Love Is Not The Destination: It Is Always Where You Are Traveling From

from 10 MINUTES TO LESS SUFFERING · host Allison Carmen

Have you ever found yourself searching for love, approval, or connection and feeling worse the more you looked? This episode is for you. So many of us grow up believing love is something we have to find, earn, or wait for. We look for it in relationships, in validation, in achievement. And the more we search, the emptier we feel. But what if that emptiness is not real? Or what if what you think you lack was never missing? This episode explores one of the most common and painful patterns in human experience: confusing longing with lack. You will learn why longing is not a sign that something is wrong with you. You will understand why searching for love outside yourself keeps you stuck. And you will be guided through a simple but powerful practice to reconnect to the love that already lives inside you. This episode is for you if you are dating and feeling depleted or desperate. This episode is for you if you feel like something is missing but cannot name it. This episode is for you if you keep approaching relationships from a place of need. This episode is for you if you are ready to stop chasing and start living from wholeness. No steps. No fixing. Just an honest, calming invitation back to yourself. Lastly, you can also follow me on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, Twitter, and LinkedIn. If you are interested in my work, please check out my books, The Gift of Maybe: Finding Hope and Possibility in Uncertain Times (including a new audiobook), A Year Without Men: A 12 Point Guide To Inspire and Empower Women and my new Audiobook,  Maybe Everything Is Okay, A Parent's Guide To Less Stress and Worry. Also you can check out my new Maybe Cards: A Path to Stress-Free Living or my new digital Maybe Journal.  Above all, my heartfelt hope is that this podcast has supported your journey of personal growth, helped shift your mindset, reduce stress, built emotional resilience, and brought you less suffering and more joy, clarity, and peace.

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