Love, Sex, and Relationships Part 2: Creating Safe Spaces and Loving Yourself

Send us Fan MailWelcome to part two of this juicy conversation on love, sex, and relationships! I learned a lot about myself and the trans community and I hope you do too. In this episode of Dem Bois Podcast, we talk about transitioning later in life, finding support and being your own elder, deciding what type of man you want to be, and much more. If you haven’t listened to part one yet, I definitely recommend that you check it out. Click here!We talk:Transitioning later in life - 1:46Finding safe spaces for trans people to meet in person - 8:46Creating safe spaces for black, queer folk - 17:38Advice for listeners who are in relationships - 23:32Getting to know your body - 38:47Accepting/respecting that people have different rules in relationships - 41:11Fun with random questions - 46:51Click here for transcript!References:Pleasure Activism: The Politics of Feeling Good, book by adrienne maree brownRead more about our guests in their bios below:Dallas Martinez (He/Him/Them/Them) - Dallas is an indigenous/Latinx trans masc living in Seattle, WA. He is an attorney, activist, and most importantly a spouse and parent. They are happily married to their partner of 13 years and have two children together. Dallas is family-centric, not only with his own nuclear family and intergenerational household, but also with his chosen family, which he chooses to intentionally and continuously create. Love, sex, and relationships were not always built on trust and joy with Dallas, but in the end, intentional work and growth proved valuable.https://invisibletmen.org/our-lives-our-stories/nayahri-n-z-suhalia/IG: TheVibeChroniclesDallas Martinez - Staff Attorney - QLaw Foundation | LinkedInKamari Romeo (He/Him) - Kamari Roméo is an Artist and Creative Producer from London, UK. His organisation Anomaly Arts, champions Black, Queer and Neurodiverse voices through film, literature and community projects. In his spare time, Kamari offers consultancy to organizations via On Road Media who create strong, positive depictions of trans people in television, theater and journalism. Kamari is a proud and active member of the BDSM community, centering pleasure spaces for Black Queer Sexuality, joy and mental health. YouTubeIG: @kamariromeoCelebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.!2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve.Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility.Donate today!Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color!The  Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks. Dem Bois YouTube Channel! - @demboisinc - Exclusive content you won't find anywhere else!