Love Unlimited EP 22: 10 Dangerous assumptions about marriage relationships

“Your assumptions are your windows on the world. Scrub them off every once in awhile, or the light won't come in.” ― Isaac AsimovThese are the assumptions:That every marriage begins with falling in love Happily ever after is not guaranteed after a wedding or honeymoon You have your mood swings and your spouse is no angel either Just because you sleep together, live in the same house or share a dream, does not give you permission to make decisions on your relationship without consulting each other. His family is your family and vice versa Mi casa et su casa If you don’t say it your spouse should ‘read’ your behaviour and know what to do Disagreements are part of every marriage Great/Frequent lovemaking, means deep love for each other and vice versa is trueMy spouse should always put me first, in his/her life Remember Falling in love is easy but staying in love is a team effort, and assumptions have no room in this endeavour. Ask, converse, suggest, and most of all, learn to listen to each other. Support the show