Love Yourself First, F*ck the Rest | EP 205

Send us your Questions Meet Diva Reina, a force of nature whose energy will leave you breathless and inspired. This vibrant 54-year-old entrepreneur from Bonaire doesn't just enter a room—she transforms it with her infectious enthusiasm and raw authenticity.Over drinks and laughter, Diva opens up about her journey through a 17-year marriage that ultimately ended in divorce. With startling honesty, she describes the emotional toll of staying in an unhappy relationship: "You feel like a bitch is eating your heart... you can't smile more, it's like a fake smile." Her breaking point became her breakthrough, leading to a powerful philosophy that now guides her life: "Love yourself first. F*ck the rest."Post-divorce, Diva channeled her newfound freedom into entrepreneurship, launching Pure Desires—a line of natural skincare products she crafts in her kitchen. What began as pandemic experimentation has evolved into a legitimate business featuring hand sanitizers with natural scents, body washes, soaps, and lip glosses. Beyond selling products, she conducts workshops empowering others to create their own natural skincare items.The conversation takes fascinating detours through her colorful childhood in Bonaire, her adventures at Brazil's Carnival, and her work as a life coach for individuals with special needs. Throughout, Diva shares wisdom earned through hard-won experience, including her time management secrets that allow her to balance multiple pursuits while still making time for self-care.Diva describes Bonaire as "paradise—like having vacation on a small island 365 days a year," but her true paradise seems to be the peace she's found within herself. Her parting advice on forgiveness—to truly forgive with your heart and mind—offers a glimpse into how she's transformed past pain into present joy.Whether you're contemplating a major life change, starting a business, or simply seeking to inject more authentic happiness into your days, Diva's story will remind you that it's never too late to choose yourself and create the life you truly desire.SUBSCRIBE TO OUR CHANNEL:    / @nofilterinparadise  INSTAGRAM | https://www.instagram.com/nofilterinp...