Loving Yourself Through Gender Dysphoria with Tommy Colby McCray

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Dem Bois Podcast, I get the chance to sit down with someone who is just starting out on their gender journey, Tommy Colby McCray. Tommy is a serial writer and uses writing as a therapeutic outlet for stabilizing their mental health. They share their journey of self-discovery, navigating gender dysphoria, and the complexities of choosing a name that resonates with their identity. We also discuss family dynamics, personal loss, and the impact of these experiences on mental health. Please note: Tommy changed his name after this recording.We talk:10:01 Navigating gender identity and name selection19:58 Family dynamics and personal loss29:51 Creative aspirations and Tommy’s writing process40:06 Finding community and support50:53 Reflections on loss and regretClick here for transcription!Episode References:The Aggressives Read more about Tommy in his bio below:I am just learning myself as not only a serial tv writer but as a person who's just been diagnosed with gender dysphoriaTwitter @xander_gabriel7 IG: @theoshilohmccray  Email: [email protected] 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.!2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve.Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility.Donate today!Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color!The  Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks. Dem Bois YouTube Channel! - @demboisinc - Exclusive content you won't find anywhere else!