Making Comparisons // Flying Under the Radar, Part 2

Isn't it funny how good we are at comparing our lot in life with the circumstances of the people around us?  The grass is always greener right?  But what if – what if we're exactly where God meant us to be? I'll tell you something that we're all really good at; it's making comparisons between ourselves and other people. We look at our lot in life, our circumstances and we compare that with the next person and ours always looks so crummy and hopeless. We look in the mirror and we see ourselves warts and all and then we look at our friends and we think, "Wow, I wish I looked like them." Or we compare our abilities with theirs or our marriage with theirs or our house or our car or our status with theirs, whatever it is and we think, "I would love to be doing as well as they are." You know I think, I think this is a symptom of a deep sickness in our society, an addiction. An addiction to recognition. We've become a bunch of recognition junkies because that's what they feed us on TV and the celebrity magazines and the songs that make the hit parade. It's all about clamouring for recognition and success, whatever that is, and being noticed and rewarded. At home and at work, on the sporting field and then someone else seems to be getting just a tad more of the lime light than we are, we feel so incredibly wounded, any, any of this sound even vaguely familiar? I remember this routine so well; I used to hate it when someone else succeeded. School friends or work colleagues, I wanted the glory and the recognition for me, I didn't want them to have any of it. It's really sad. I mean I can talk about it now quite dispassionately but back then, this would eat away at me like a cancer. See Berni was the quintessential recognition junkie, it's a sign of never growing up, it's a sign of not making the transition from being a child, and children rely on the recognition and approval of their parents, to being an adult. Sure we all need encouragement but that's different, that's healthy, encouragement is affirming but when we need it to survive, when we hunger after it, when it motivates what we do, then we're getting it all wrong. Let me give you an example. Numbers and statistics. Ministries like ours on the radio are reaching millions of people around the world each week, touching lives through the media. How do you measure the effectiveness of what we do? Well some people write or call to tell us the impact the programs have had on their lives and you know that's a real encouragement, just to hear someone's story how God used the program last week to unlock something in their hearts. Can I tell you? That gives me an incredible sense of satisfaction. But last year, last year I was at this seminar and they suggested that we establish "performance based reporting". How many people are responding to your program, how many people are coming to Christ, how many people … ? Kind of reducing Gods work down to a bunch of statistics. You see success is based on the quantification of recognition, that's what they were saying. See how easy it is to fall into this recognition trap. Can I tell you? If in His day, Jesus had done performance based reporting He would have flunked because in the end they all deserted Him and left Him to die on the cross. And you know something; I know that certain series that we produce will have a stronger response from people than others. A "what's in it for me" kind of title like "Reaping God's Harvest in My Life" will always have a stronger response than something like 'Flying Under the Radar' which talks about sacrifice. And if I danced to the statistics of recognition I would just tickle your ears with stuff you'd like to hear rather than the stuff that God wants you to hear and that you need in your life. And you know it's the same in every part of our lives. We can become recognition junkies, looking for recognition whether its in statistics or whether it's pats on the back, whatever it is but flying under the radar is not about recognition, its about being the person that God made us to be and doing the things He called us to do and just honouring Him and living our lives for Him. The apostle Paul knew that, on death row in a Roman prison, in chains, have a listen to what he writes in his letter to the Church at Philippi: Now I want you to know brothers and sisters, that what's happened to me has really served to advance the gospel. As a result it's become clear throughout the whole palace guard and to everyone else that I am in chains for Christ. Because of my chains most of my brothers in the Lord have been encouraged to speak the word of God more courageously and fearlessly. Now it's true some of them preach Christ out of envy and rivalry but others out of good will. The latter do so in love knowing that I'm put in here for the defence of the gospel, the former though, preach Christ out of selfish ambition not sincerely, supposing that they can stir up trouble for me while I'm in chains. But what does it matter? The important thing is that in every way, whether from false motives or true, Christ is preached and because of this I rejoice. Imagine, he's been ripped out of the lime light, he's staring down the barrel at death, people are taunting him, they're going out and doing what he used to do, preaching the good news of Jesus Christ and they're doing it to stir up trouble for him and to taunt him out of selfish ambition. And his response? His response is, "I don't care because it's not about me, as long as someone's out there telling people about Jesus Christ that's fantastic." There he is in a dungeon on death row. You know, recently I was flying between Australia and New Zealand, I was up at 35.000 feet in a 747 and I pulled out my PDA, you know the phone and hand held computer and it has an electronic version of the Bible on it and I was reading this passage out of Paul's letter and I thought, "Here I am 2,000 years later, 35,000 feet above a part of the world that Paul didn't even know existed, reading what he wrote in that Roman dungeon. He could never have imagined how powerfully God was going to use him." And that's the point for me. You see the flashy things that I can do in my own strength to get recognition, to get a laugh then nothing compared to what God can do when He gets a hold of me and uses me in His power. And you know it's the same with you. Sure, you've got some abilities that I don't have and sure, you could use them to get some flashes of recognition but when you place those abilities in Gods hands He multiplies them with a power and an impact that will take our breath away. It's not about you and I comparing our lots with another, it wasn't about Paul sitting in that dungeon on death row comparing his lot with the people that were out there taunting him, it's not about that. God takes us through dungeons from time to time. Yours are going to be different to mine. And then He shapes us and moulds us and uses us for His glory and the way He uses you will be different to the way that He uses me. It's not about recognition. It should never be about recognition and numbers and statistics and, and, it shouldn't be. People whom He uses powerfully are those that co-operated with Him in that dungeon, just kind of faithfully following Him, flying under the radar of public recognition, being there, standing there, doing what He's called you to do for His sake – under the radar.