Making Friends as an Adult: The Struggle is Real!

In this episode of Coffee with Mailette, I open up about something I’ve been wrestling with—how hard it can be to make friends as an adult. Growing up as a Navy brat, then later moving across states, I’ve experienced both instant connection and deep loneliness. From missing my “Norma-type” friend I could call any time, to navigating seasons of isolation in new places, I share my journey of craving authentic friendships—the kind where you can show up in your PJs, laugh until you cry, and be fully yourself. If you’ve ever wondered why making friends feels harder as we get older, or if you’ve felt that ache for your “core people,” this conversation is for you. Let’s talk about expectations, red flags, and why connection means so much to our souls. And maybe, just maybe, start imagining new ways we can create community together—book clubs, walking groups, or even Zoom coffee dates. Because one thing’s for sure: you’re not alone in this.