Making the Invisible Visible: How to Build a Court-Ready Record in a Borderline Divorce

Episode Summary: In this episode of *Vampire Divorce* Clarke Young discusses the crucial aspect of making invisible behavior visible in family law cases. He emphasizes the importance of documenting incidents outside the courtroom to ensure the court understands the reality of the situation. Key Timestamps: 00:00 – Introduction 01:30 – The significance of bringing invisible behavior to light 03:15 – Creating a day-in-the-life declaration for custody cases 05:45 – Documenting important details outside the courtroom 08:10 – Importance of admissible evidence in family court 10:20 – Differentiating evidence that reveals the truth from misleading evidence 12:40 – Role of professionals like therapists in family law cases 15:05 – Challenges in finding competent professionals in child custody evaluations 17:30 – The need for precise and limited involvement of experts in the case 20:00 – Crafting detailed court orders for individuals with borderline traits 22:45 – Challenges in getting judges to sign comprehensive court orders 25:10 – Dealing with judges who fail to grasp the complexities of borderline behavior 27:30 – Strategies when judges overlook crucial aspects in family law cases About the Show: *Vampire Divorce* is a podcast hosted by a seasoned family law attorney, Clarke Young, delving into the complexities of family law matters, especially those involving high-conflict custody disputes. Tune in to gain valuable insights and perspectives on navigating challenging legal situations.