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Making_marriage_simple

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Hallelujah. Alright, can we please take your seats? Shall we pray, our Father and our God? We thank you for your faithfulness.

Grant us the grace to come into your presence. It's not prayer. The Lord, you will take your high place in the midst of your people. Lord, our hearts will handle and test for you.

Grant us understanding. Let our hearts be guarded to seek you, to serve you. Lord, faithfulness and truthfulness in the name of the Lord Jesus. Amen.

Hallelujah. Alright, it's a joy to be in the house of the Lord today. I trust that the Lord is dealing well with you and all the goodness of God is come upon you. Amen.

This morning, I'm sharing some few truths of life to you and the title is, making marriage simple, making marriage simple. Alright, like I said the other day, it may not benefit you directly because you're married already, but it can help you to advise somebody. Alright, it will help you to invite somebody. But it can also help you to put things better in your life because there are always two reasons why God would always bring us as word.

It is to affect us and be a blessing. So we can also be a blessing to somebody. Amen. I would mean.

Alright. Over the years, I'm showing last Sunday, you were so much blessed by Dr. Al-Betta Bonzi Simpson. Michelle was so blessed.

But my concern is to make things easier and simpler for us because marriage is not a complex thing. A warrior, a warrior, a warrior, a very simple thing. But unfortunately, we have thrown away our values. We have thrown away our culture and picked on us above all our, and we have done it together.

But I believe that when we have understanding, it will help us to do things better, especially those who are yet to marry. And those who are here already, it should also be able to make us understand how to make life better for ourselves. The basic rule of our marriage is that you don't enter into it, not considering what it entails. Amen.

So, over the years, I was saying to you, it was just for me. I was saying I was a warrior, he said I was a warrior, I was a warrior, and I was a warrior. And I'm not a warrior. And to me, I'm a boy.

I'm a boy. So, if you're a woman or a wife, you must understand clearly that you are created as a helper. I'm a boy. I'm a boy.

I'm a woman. I'm a boy. I'm a woman. I'm a woman.

I know. If I'm doing something, do the thing. When a helper comes, the helper is bringing some extra hiwale so I can make it, so I can succeed. Hallelujah.

But the brothel comes to help me in what I'm doing already. The brothel does not come to take the responsibility. He, she comes to help me do what I'm doing. Amen?

When the Lord sends different ministers here, they don't come to take over the pastor. That is why when any minister comes, he can't just come and do anything at all. He must do things based on my consent. Hallelujah.

If you go to any office, you don't go telling the chief is a get-to-the-bosses what they must do. You are a worker going to help to achieve their goals and aspirations and dreams. In the end, the woman is the man who is the man who is the man who is the man. So there's nothing like the man who has his role to play as a husband.

Amen? What interesting to say is, unfortunately, in some homes, the woman is the man and the man is the woman. There is an order God has established in the home, in the church, in the office. And when that order is in place, the blessing of God would come.

We are, if you are single-person, you are blessed of God. But when you are married, two blessed people coming together would enjoy full blessing. If you are single-rate of us, the Bible says in Hebrews 13, verse 4, courage is honorable. Marriage is honorable in all things.

Hallelujah. There is some en-n entropy! Hello, what were you? What were you?

Are you a player? What about me? By myself GoPro, could you do that? which said there was nothing, somebody else?

I said the past half of the day, that there will have been a pretty big difference and there requires at least one minute Schluster! Who I was, who was there, didn't have that conversations, that never had to be there, she wasly too close to me there was she andando Dukmansky If you are single, there's a blessing on the single life. So when you are married, it's double blessing. But if you're not married also, let me tell you how it's said.

You're not very shy. You're very shy. And you're really shy. The blessing is the opposite.

And I say, you're not going to be in a good way. I say, don't you? You're not really. You're going to be in a good way.

I say, do you have a long time away, but it's a long time away, all I've got is to have a long time. Let's say two. Final. One final.

I said, oh, come on. I said. Shit. I said, oh, 15 feet, so one final.

One final. I said, oh, 15 feet. They're big ones, but I say, that's not true. Yes, I say, that's not true.

Yes, I'm not, but one final. One final. Those two? So I said, oh, yeah.

You know, I'm not going to be trying to do it. I said, oh, yeah. I said, oh, yeah. Oh, yeah, that's not true.

You know, I said, oh, yeah, yeah. How much is this for? It's all got it? There's it's all got it?

There's it. It's all got it. It's marriage is honorable in all. And you'll be a batawario.

But it is not to intimidate or to disrespect people so that if I am married and somebody is not married, then many of you don't. I don't like it. I just miss it. It's not necessary.

It's not necessary. The honor of marriage is the blessing it carries. And every institution of God is blessed. We are not supposed to use it against one another.

We're not supposed to feel good with one another, amen? So that if you are married, nobody else, no cistern can talk to your husband, no, it's not necessary. Hello, if you are married, it doesn't mean that no other man can talk to your wife, not any other man, but brother. So if you see me standing, talking to your wife, you are saying, I say, I've all been told by a couple of years.

But that just doesn't mean that I'm always ready to come take a long stretch. That's something you can find. That's something you have to be wearing, right? And that's something you can do.

And then in!!! And you don't have to be the one! That's what you're doing. And you can give yourself gold.

I feel like you have to click on this. You know what, I feel like you are 35 years there. And you can see that I love you. I feel like you have to go out and watch the video.

I feel like you're changing the video. But that's what you're doing, right? I feel like you're already texts. He said, and my master made me swear, saying, Dasha, not take a wife to my son Isaac, or the daughters of the canonized in whose none I dwell.

But Dasha go on to my father's house and to my kindred, and take a wife unto my son. Father Abraham sent Eliza, his chief steward, and said, Eliza, Isaac is of age, and Isaac must marry. But I want you to swear to me that you're not going to pick any canonized woman, manna, a war around, uncoffedee, namom, comechee, mejafir, nakapé, aure, amanibana, amen, and exvis. And I said unto my master, pay adventure, the woman will not follow me.

And he said unto me, the Lord before whom I walk, will send his angel with you, and prosper your journey, prosper your way, and dansha, take a wife for my son of my kindred and of my father's house. Then Shaddab be clef from this, my oath, when thou comes to my kindred, and if they give not the one, dansha be clef from my oath. And I came this day unto the well and said, O Lord God of my master Abraham, if now thou do prosper my way, which I go, behold, I stand by the well of water, and it shall come to pass that when the virgin comes forth to draw water, and I say to her, give me, I pray you, water a little water out of your water pot to drink. And she said to me, both drink thou, and I will also draw for your come else, let the same be the woman whom the Lord has appointed out of my master's son, Hallelujah.

He had this carefully, in this life, Jenny, and yet, O badia, nay, wahren. Hello, mothi, yasim, my way, and yet O badia, nay, wahren. Sashin, yasim, yasim, yasim, nay, blem, nay, wahren. You must understand that, clearly.

So when it came to marrying for Isaac, Abraham said, Abraham said, I mean, the way powerful women in Kena. Hello? They're powerful women in Kena, but they didn't know God. So number one, to make marriage simple, make sure that you marry a Christian, a Christian man, a Christian woman, one who has acknowledged Jesus as his or her Lord and personal savior, or Christo, nimapa, nay, or gyo, kaso, nay, nay, braham, nay, wahren.

And man, nay, nay, wahren, nay, wahren. Nay, mothi, nay, mothi, nay, wahren. Nay, mothi, nay, wahren, nay, wahren. I'm not a bad man, I'm a bad Isaac.

Hallelujah. Because I'm a member of Fu Mano, I'm an old woman, yeah, man, I see it. Hello? The Bible said, and Samson went to Timna, and saw a lady, and came to tell the prayer, and said, I'm a good woman, Timna, I'm a bad woman, I say, yo, Isaac, Samson, a friend, not a wahren sono, any a palmana, or a didn't know a wahren sono, or a woman, or a bad yakkuket.

Hello? Ah, the sons here. Because of what God wants to do with your life, of your destiny, you can't marry any mankuket. I cannot choose who you should marry, but I will influence it on my knees.

There was this, my daughter. I lost her. I should have said the day that man wanted to marry her, that me bahkukmakun, so I saw her by Debbie. That's Mrs.

Doris. Go to the Blessed Memory. I will see it. Bam ma, se, or bandi yariah.

What's the fribbishok? The bishok? Bandi yariah, or her, or a drian husband? Minisika, damn.

So I have to take money for my daughter. She's six, she cannot stand on her feet. Bishok, anyone bandi n ka soo. I'm a cometin.

I'm a young brafian, I'm a back pla, I told myself, the day my daughter came to say that papa, bam ma bishok, I should have said no. Amen. And to look into my face well and hear my heart cry. Ooh, the bam ma bibah.

Meji natu, if se, mein to mein chorobemah, ogawai nok. No mumun, yo, hum wak ye. Because ogapa anerai, desi, de bidya, minaka se debi. Min tanka.

Because mein name said, I cannot choose. Amen. I've been praying for Enoch, because I cannot choose who they should marry, but I'm praying every strange woman out of his life. Yada is that daddy.

So if you want to marry, what do you do? I said, correct. So I started giving him the rouse. But some time ago, I wanted to test this.

I said, boy, what's your plan? I said, daddy. I want to finish school and settle. So the last time he has daddy, so what do you look out for?

I said, correct. You look out for values. The woman that respects you. The woman that believes in you.

The woman that fears God. The woman that loves to honor God and the woman that loves to honor you. The woman that would accept you just as you are. The woman that believes in the word of God.

The woman that is hard-working. The woman that, when you give her 10 cities, she will turn it around into 20 cities. Not the woman that says, Enoch, can we speak? Compisco says, come, speak, speak.

Today is Compisco. Tomorrow is here. Tomorrow is here. Tomorrow is here.

Amen. But not also the woman that she doesn't want to go to. Compisco. You want to do a short cry to her?

I said, who do you? Enoch, I'm going to go back. I didn't catch you. Amen.

Once a while, Amen. A woman that would be very transparent on Fabibia in a few, or Escabió, or Escabió, and I say, Enoch. I said, who do you take her for granted. Hello.

Do you want to take her for granted? Or do you make it sure, I said, what do you want to do, what you want to do? I just shennel anyone, I'm going to pray for a young man and our daughters. As we pray, the Lord will direct their hearts.

To make the right choices. not the woman or man that would take away your heart from your God and your family. I worry about you. Amen.

And because I cannot choose for any of my children who they should marry, I'm praying constantly that they'll make the right choices. So when they bring, I will not say that because if your heart has gotten so much into it and I say no, it will bring Valhalla. So I tell the ladies, don't get your heart into until you are sure. Amen.

Hello. The next best, please. And before I had done speaking in my heart, we hope Rebecca came forth with her water pot on her shoulder and she went down onto the well and drew water and I sat onto her. Let me drink.

I pray you. Please give me some water. And she made his or papon or papon or papon or papon or papon or papon or papon or papon and give me to drink. Then she says, I would also give your come else to drink.

I said, oh, no, no, no. I don't want to drink. I want to drink. I want to drink, I want to drink.

I want to drink. I want to drink, I want to drink. I want to drink. I want to drink.

I want to drink. Hello. You must have something in common that would be because you're going to spend all your life together. Don't worry because of children.

The children they want to leave you. So you must be friends, friends, hello young folks, friends, marry a friend. out for your friend, have excellent friendship. It says, Rachel, no, Rebecca, came from a livestock home.

She was a shepherd herself and understood what it meant to give water to a guest. And I hope about if you know she's been there, not any will. I can't imagine, in August March, I go to visit my son and the wife is making faces. But come, I'll throw.

I'll kill her. The sisters come to their only brother. I have a problem when they're there, okay. That's fine.

I say, boy, talk to this lady. Otherwise, we will kill her. I will do it. I mean, my son is simple.

Because me and Titu, I wouldn't want my son to Titu anybody. Titu, I mean, the one is there. I will give him my dad. He doesn't know what to do to himself.

Me and Titu are saying they're willing to marry a prince. I said, Rebecca didn't know who Elieza was and didn't know who Abraham was and didn't even have an idea of who Isaac was The Bishop you have come up only but with super young people coming up at the young Babbi Hello Because over the other show did because if I see a bunch of my body now would just bump up here They said well by said over soon about said or by power. Oh, you know sure What's up, I'm such a Not news From San Shinsu About the rise there. Hey boy, sweetie.

Can you wash my things for me? Then oh my I come what was going on some doing some washing. That's fine. Help your wife watch forehead take the panties and Dry it But each every day I come and you are doing the washing and she's in the heart cross.

I let they watch TV Hello my daughter in law. How are you today? You are your way out. Oh, yes But a bit of a man who I was we said Because you see there are four things amid the marriage listen carefully four things amid the marriage food sex housekeeping laundry for food the bad laundry keeping the whole for and This for is the woman's responsibility So who can be did he who can't idea who can if you pay a comma because maybe I the greatest excitement of every man is his living room It's his living room one people fear you not living room a bazaar moon part a bazaar But in trouble and say we're being a month of our for now a month who could be honest said House have a big run a near bianina.

They mama mr. S. A bundle upon to the you serve your husband in case in case There is a reason that you cannot cook There must be some things and times that you must do the cooking and serve your husband a man Save your husband his food because I did a koyafuna mua you can bring it out into the crowd Oh, come on. I'm quite sure you should be in the beginning of the day I'm a little bit deep as a member of common in you come on come to you now or better mention a few We said because they hatch to every man food Amen, and then you're gonna be okay.

I'm gonna do I would be a young or common do I we you just said what Janie a day? Amen We're getting a down the man on you and I'm not in a safe. I'm sorry transg watching the cook, asking how they're from home. No!

They're trying to make a job money. Actually, husband. Sweetie, in Nuncho, in chat. I'm not saying that, but it's not.

I'm saying that. Yes, sir. I'm saying that. I'm saying that.

I'm saying that. I'm saying that. I'm saying that. Anything goes.

I'm coming out. I'm going to turn it on. I'm coming out. I'm saying that.

I'm saying too many things. Now you come from work. And they put down rice. And can I?

I'm saying that. I'm saying that is important. I'm saying that's correct. I'm saying that right.

Then, in my book, I'm saying that you're going to be true. So no IRS Actor is loving, and I'm going to paint. What else did I leave? Well, everybody in this book, we'll come back a little bit later.

When's the next time they're getting started? Well, I'm like yeah, give me one of my best. What else? Ten three.

Huh? The communication is exit. Give me one of your best. Not at all.

You can't. You can't alternating continue. Another communication. Hello?

Communication. Let's read on. That's something I want to show you then we'll close. And I asked her and said, whose daughter are you?

And he said, the daughter of Beter, now her son, whom Milka, go on to him. And I put the earring on her face and the bracelet upon her hands in the promissory ring. And I bowed down my head and worshiped the Lord and blanched the Lord God of my master Abraham, which had led me in the right way to take my master's brother's daughter on to his son, Hallelujah. Come with your ways into his hands and he will bring it to pass.

Don't just follow anything in marriage. Don't use only this one. Use this one also. Amen.

Amen. Amen. Oh, your Christian need. Fine.

Is she hardworking? Oh, your Christian need. Fine. Oh, your Christian need.

Oh, I did. Oh, your Christian need. I'm a girl. Oh, your Christian need.

Oh, Timah. Oh, your Christian need. I'm a Christian. I'm a woman.

Hallelujah. October twenty. We're a Christian. Oh, you look you look so tan.

Is this an Christian character? Has anyone ever sold? Who am I? Why?

That today is most intolerant. Satan,aim, crown of silver, fire, regulars, Fundamentalism Actum es. Because it's not about the Bible, it's about the Bible. And in Libya, in the New Kingdom.

Hello? All right, there's something I wanted to show us. Let's read it on. And now, if you will do it kindly and truly with my master, tell me and if not, tell me that I'll attend to the right hand or to the left.

Then labor and better, as I said, the thing proceeds from the Lord. We cannot speak unto you good or bad. Behold, Rebecca is before you. Take care and go.

And let her be that mustess son's wife, as the Lord had spoken, hallelujah. Hallelujah. Hallelujah. Let's read on it.

And it came to pass. When Abraham's seven heads the West, he worshipped the Lord, bowing himself to the earth. In Sam want to say Shama wah. When she said cry, oh don't you want to say she is not an adult.

Then she said, no you are not an adult. And you notice that when it is a bit of a mess, everyone from my sister did not go, but this man did everything else, everyone was there himself. Amen, we are O because of you. Next one, and the seven brought forth jewels of silver and jewels of gold and remade and gave them to Rebecca.

And he gave also her brother Akuntasekain and to the mother, internal, this is the dawg, we are a dual area, in Tari, Sika Koko, Sika Fita, Emma, Nakuntanibi, Emma, Nacinibi. Are you following it? Right. And they did eat and drink.

And the men that were with him and Tari all night, and they rose up in the morning and he said, send me away to my master. So, Bemanno, and Obeye Obanuadie. Hello? Bemanno, Obeye Obanuadie.

Now, we need Bae-Bumu, our yano. We need a friend who customarily married or traditional marriage, if he our yano and none our yano. Simple. Next base.

And her brother and her mother let the dasmele abide with us. The brother and mother said, let the dasmele let the lady be with us from few days. At least 10 days after that she shall go. And he said unto them, he done you not.

Seeing the Lord have prospected my way. Send me away, then I'ma go to my master. And they said, we will call the dasmele and enquire at her mother. Ever throw a bar, no need be sent.

I said, namma, will yano, yano, yano, yano. And they called Rebecca, Bae-ki, and said unto her, will that go with this man? And she said, nn, all right. Sure.

I'll call the next base. And they sent her away, Rebecca dasista, and her niece, and Abraham Seaman and his men. Now let's see what happened. And they blessed Rebecca and said unto her, thou art our sister, be thou the mother of thousands of millions, and let thy seepous zest the gates of those which hit them.

Hallelujah. And Rebecca arose and had dasmeleles, and they rode upon their camels and followed the man. And the seven took Rebecca and went his way. For this cause, Shiliman, lived his father and mother, and cleaved to his wife.

And they too, shiluan fled. Marriage is good. God instituted it. But there are processes in the marriage that we have forsaken and made it complex.

Number one, marriage is not the crown, the veil, and the gown. That is not our culture. Hello? Hello?

That is not our culture. That is not our culture. That is not our culture. That is not our culture.

Sadhian, your friend, engagement, you know? Yacam, apoqyay. A bro today. Is that okay with you?

Are you very? No, we have no finished. So we go for a date. I'm pissed.

You'll be okay on where you want to go. All right. Let's go. Actually, I could do it.

When we say, Obama, come on. I'm a baby. I want to engage you. So take this ring and go tell everybody that you met a guy who wants to spend his life with you.

It's all right. Thanks. It's an uni-coofy. Yeah, so you're engaged.

You're engaged. I'm engaged with him. So now, I want to talk to you and say, hey, daddy, you know what? I met a young man who says we must spend our lives together and I love him.

So this is the promise we're bringing, this is my gig, my dream. So we're going to fix the wedding date. And it's always the woman that's fixed the wedding date. You know what I mean?

That is the Angostas alone system. It's always the woman that's fixed the date. And there's one reason why the woman that's always fixed the date because it's the idea. Hello?

It's the idea. So they fixed the date. But I give something more. You must fix your wedding date considering your cycle, whether you be in your period or whether you be safe or you will not be pregnant in the process that after wedding, shut, except you don't mind.

But most importantly, you should not be in your period. So you should consider those factors once you're in the date. Then the plan, and it is the father, the latest father that gets the gown, that gets the crown and gets everything to gorgeously, gorge-ify the daughter and bring her comeback. We say, I'll check her out.

For your own honor and glory, I'll show you what I mean. I'll show you what I mean. Hello? I'm not a bear man.

Because of the idea of being a king, a gentleman of living. But for us as Christians in those days, it was wrong. I wonder why we lent you this one of the traditional marriage. You must stay three months before you have the wedding because a lot of money has gone in so you must recoup.

But the truth is, let's make it simple, the traditional marriage coming together of the the woman's family and all the dowry, the gifts and all the things that are brought to ask for the hand of the woman is the proper marriage. There's no need for gown and veil and what have you. It is marriage. So if it is marriage and we all understand that we want to honor the Lord, once we gather for the traditional marriage, the minister's come be there and take us through the right processes, bless and pray for us.

We are gone so that we may not even need that engagement ring again. Correct? Hello? Because the traditional marriage, you can wear anything decent but now the traditional marriage, the ladies will match up, powerful, dress everything and get the fun.

Yes, dinkin' in, dinkin' in, dinkin' in, dinkin' in, dinkin' in. And after all that before the government, I was gassainin' in, I was gassainin' in, hello? I was gassainin'. You need money after the day, then just for the day.

Within three hours, you spent so much money. I would be so the young men. Listen, if your lady wants a wedding in the English with the Cap 127, fine, no problem. You have a young man but tell her, ooh, papa, ooh, goggin'.

Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, crown. Because nothing alone is so expensive. But some rent, there are ones that are rent. Hello?

Let's make it simple. I have the traditional marriage. Let the ministers be there and bless the marriage. Simple.

Amen? We will do that for you. And one thing you have to understand, one thing you have to understand is this. After the traditional marriage, when you go ahead to sign, the signing of the marriage certificate and all the other things involved, cancels the traditional marriage by the gannalo, it cancels.

Because I perform almost, I'm on t, dawd in the ama, so they don't do it. They put in all their effort into the wedding. But ours, the traditional marriage, you know, is people in the car. That is the way you are.

That's our custom. That is our tradition. Amen? But because we may not seem to be imposing our will on you, if you also want the gown and all the things fine, we will do for you.

But we want to make it easier and simple for our men and our sisters. Because you see, all the money is that you put into the wedding on that day. That money can be, gee bia. So I'm not abad nation.

But who actually demands that? Because I have never, because I have never, I have never, you know, like I saw him and I was a sophomore. No. And then reception, I don't believe in reception.

That's why I never go for anybody's reception. So I say, hello. So I'm coming. I say, I'm encouraging it.

Because my own dad's reception, I was not there because I believe he said, Hey man. Let's save money and make money and make marriage simple. If you want to be a member of PEL, in sumo, we have two, three, four years. Now you are still in courtship because I didn't know so bad.

Now you're here to talk to me. Hello? You understand me? Shana Mashi, you know, we should have been in the same way.

I'm not saying that I'm not saying that I'm saying that. I'm sorry. Go on, we go. So there wouldn't be any pressure for anxiety because one, you don't borrow money, you don't go for alone to marry.

Hello? You never go for alone to marry, it's not. And you don't spend all your savings. So marry, what we say?

What about what can in Tamaka, be a checks and balances? Don't worry. There must always be a starting point somewhere. Inch on, I want to throw it to all of us, the young men and the young ladies.

Now think about these things. Let's make marriage simple. All right? Let's take it simple.

Traditional marriage, many states will be there to pray off we go. We may even just need one ring for the man, one ring for the woman. What we got? If you still want to sign, you can come to the office and sign, bring all your witnesses and sign.

Let's do our best to make it as simple as possible and cut off course so that you won't be under pressure, to want to go in this way by our means. So once even you could have done it in a simpler way to make things easier for you, you are still waiting two years, I don't have to do it. You can only be in question, at most one and a half years. One and a half years.

You can, if you are in relationship now, maybe two years and it's just my aspire. Oh yes. Because our rule is that, who will be not okay? One kind of term.

Then you come and introduce yourselves. So we will show you what to do during courtship. And in courtship, you'll agree. What are we going to do?

No, come again, baby. It's important. In this, our relationship, we have to go to our position. You are self to the right, okay, let's go to our position.

Our position. Man, originally I have decided to spend the rest of our lives together. So our position will ask some few questions and then teach us what courtship means because we must know ourselves very well before we say I do. Then the two of us also will have to agree.

All right. Are we going to hug? Are we going to kiss? Or not?

We must agree. So that you're not working on the other, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. What was that, blah, blah, blah, blah. Only way to, no, no, no, we're not working on that.

Why you're confused. Agree. Well hold on, it's the blah, blah, blah, blah. No, it's not.

Because what do you say? So if I see you, hold your hands. No, why is it's here? No problem, because I know.

I don't know if I say, hey, baby. I don't know if I say, oh, it's here. It's here. It's here.

Then we will guide you, amen. But say, one, go, go. I say, oh, sorry. Now we're to home.

I'm reaching the bar, sorry. I want to meet you. Oh, bar, sorry. Yes, you need to live.

Cool it. You'll be taught what to do during courtship. I should keep studying ourselves. And you have one and a half years.

By the end of the one and a half years, you should have married. So you didn't have tissues. So you won't go and sing. Amen.

Because definitely when you love the woman and you love yourselves, you would have affection for each other. You would be sexually attracted to each other. So to avoid any problem, when you're in the term, as long as you are matured, you decided to marry. You only must make sure that as a young man that wants to marry, you must have a bed.

You must have a table. You must have something, one or two utensils. You must have chacha. Send me a bell.

What do you have to do? You must have a bell. I say, I see it. No, I'm not going to go.

You must have the basics. Amen. And the ladies, don't go look for it. Standing freezer, sitting freezer, sitting cook up, standing cook up, those things that will come as you bring your blessings together.

I am not going to. I am going to. But you don't look at those things before you marry. Hello?

Hello? Hello? It's an air-dion. It's a good part of the cook.

It's a good part of the cook. It's a good part of the cook. It's progressive. It's progressive.

Are you with me? Don't try to put pressure on yourselves. Once you are not sure of where you were sitting in the oven, or find out, or in the oven, at least have some small cabin. Amen?

The internet is saying, one roomer. Now I call. Benton boutique. Robert Keating.

Tick. Now I check. Hole in the kitchen. Bedroom.

It's a no su san. One roomer. One roomer. One roomer.

One roomer. One roomer. One roomer. One roomer.

One roomer. One roomer. One roomer. One roomer.

One roomer. I have to wait for the temptation. Amen. You have to see it?

Come. The truth of the matter is that if you love the lady, and the lady loves you, if you start holding your hands, about three months, power an imbium. You know what I am talking about? Yeah.

Everybody know. Power an imbium. You know what I am talking about? Yes.

You understand. You know, there is something else. Simple. I have got to say this.

Okay. I'm not worried about this. Simple. You don't make your mind.

You don't make your eyes. Really? I don't make your eyes. With you.

You know, I'll do that. Me, too. I want to say this. Thank you.

Now I want to say the truth of the science. Me, too. And that's about to say. I don't know.

I love you. You know, and that's about you. So, we have a number of people who are here. And then there's another important aspect.

We have pre-marital cancer, and we have post-marital cancer, more worried about it. But mucha, moving here, a future will be at the Nia Mabia attitude here. You can still come as a couple and request for post-marital cancer. We'll look at it and help you to spice your marriage and add value to your relationship because it's for life.

It's for life. It's for life. It's for life. And it's for life.

It's for life. It's for life. It's for life. It's for life.

It's for life. It's for all. It's for life. It's for life.

It's for life. It's for life. It's for life. It's for life.

It's for life. It's for life. It's for life. It's for life.

It's for life. It's for life. It's for life. It's for life.

It's for life. It's for life. It's for life. It's for life.

It's for life. It's for life. It's for life. It's for life.

It's for life. It's for life. It's for life. It's for life.

It's for life. It's for life. It's for life. It's very important.

Hello! Sometimes it's heart bleeding. I have seen it before, when setting fadels want to take everything, everything is like Let's go, Ayok, let's�. Everybody get Alen bakel.

sensitive. Bien gy broadly. It's not right. Don't disrespect your husband in any way.

Don't talk about it. Don't leave peacefully. It doesn't issue. Talk.

Amen? But the thing is that if you love the man, there are some things you will not do. And if you love the woman, there are some things you will not do. Hello?

The man is supposed to take good care of the woman. Then the woman in security would give you everything to support you. I don't believe. Because you see, before you marry any man or woman, maybe in her family.

He or she is a breadwinner. Are you listening to me? So when you marry, that thing cannot stop. Let's say for example, you marry a lady.

She is paying the nieces fees. Or the man is paying the nephew or nieces fees. And you marry. And you say that that must cease.

So what is going to happen to the destiny and the life of that niece or nephew? You must have to sit and plan and see how best you can help. Because maybe your mother-in-law has to go to the hospital every month. You must help your spouse to do that.

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