Man (and Woman) In The Mirror

Pablo and Vanessa discuss the tension between compassion and accountability, and what happens when “understanding someone” becomes an excuse to avoid truth. Inspired by the quote given over in a recent talk by Lee Harris, “We give people an excuse for bad behavior when we don’t trust their capacity to grow,” this episode explores the stories we tell about others, the patterns we excuse, and the uncomfortable mirror those patterns reveal in ourselves. Through reflections on relationships, growth, perspective, and Michael Jackson’s Man in the Mirror, the conversation returns again and again to one question: What are we actually seeing here?