EPISODE · Apr 24, 2026 · 36 MIN
Man Or Bear And Now It’s Your Husband
from Say it Sister... · host Lucy Barkas & Karen Heras Kelly
Send us Fan MailWe sit with the shock of a widely reported online “r*pe academy” and what it reveals about drugging, consent, and the scale of misogyny online. We share personal stories, name the anger and exhaustion women carry, and get practical about safety, parenting, and what men must do to stop rape culture. • reacting to the reporting, the numbers, and why shock matters • how drugging and spiking trauma lives in the body and mind • why women feel unsafe even at home • the link between objectification, entitlement, and online grooming spaces • teaching consent, respect, and what healthy attraction looks like • parenting and digital boundaries around gaming, p*rn, and VR • practical due diligence, trusting instincts, and noticing relationship shifts • what men can do, calling out mates, intervening early, involving police Just tune in, listen to your instincts. You will know when something is safe or not. And if you're not sure, treat it as unsafe. RAINN (USA): rainn.orgEnd Violence Against Women Coalition (UK): evaw.org.ukVictim Support (UK): 0808 1689 111The Survivors Trust (UK): thesurvivorstrust.orgNational Domestic Abuse Helpline (UK): 0808 2000 247Send us a comment, ask a question, or suggest a topic. We would love to hear from you
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Send us Fan Mail We sit with the shock of a widely reported online “r*pe academy” and what it reveals about drugging, consent, and the scale of misogyny online. We share personal stories, name the anger and exhaustion women carry, and get practical about safety, parenting, and what men must do to stop rape culture. • reacting to the reporting, the numbers, and why shock matters • how drugging and spiking trauma lives in the body and mind • why women feel unsafe even at home...
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