Man Up: Becoming the Man You Respect...and Women Want | Ep 174

In this episode, I sit down with self-sabotage expert and entrepreneur Mike Radoor to explore a powerful question: “Am I the man that I admire?” We dive into what truly defines a high-value man—from self-respect, discipline, and physical health to emotional awareness and relationship dynamics. Mike shares his journey from building multi-million-dollar companies while struggling internally, to transforming his life through accountability, fatherhood, and Stoic principles. We talk about why many high-achieving men still feel stuck, how to stop chasing and start attracting, and what it really takes to become a man worthy of the life—and partner—you want.0:00 Intro to Mike Radoor2:30 Realizing you are not a good man4:06 Mike’s mission: help high achieving men, rock bottom moment5:56 How do men know they need help?11:00 Men have a tougher time being single?13:20 Men can’t have platonic female friends17:00 Merging with your partner well20:00 Self-respect comes from your physical shape27:01 Get in good shape for your kid’s sake! Life ROI32:00 This is definition of a great man 34:34 Who are you not looking for? 36:31 Don’t chase, instead, attract them 36:57 Dating tip for men37:52 Figure out who you are not, ladies39:25 Mike’s new book “Man Up: Stop Breaking Your Own Promises”Mike Radoor is the Self-Sabotage Expert and author of Above Average and the upcoming MAN UP! He’s built and scaled multiple 8-figure companies including Miinto.com ($300M valuation) while mastering the character principles that separate top performers from those who self-destruct.After years of building empires while battling addiction and broken promises, Mike underwent a complete character transformation when his daughter was born. He applied ancient Stoic principles and modern psychology to rebuild himself from the inside out.https://www.mikeradoor.comhttps://[email protected] *AMAZON BEST SELLER* Get my book, ‘A Roadmap For Single Asian Women’ here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C9L4CT87?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_FKWJGPCVXW3XG8D98EWB Call May for help: (310) 867-0851Join The Best Asian Matchmaker’s Database Here: https://www.twoasianmatchmakers.com/profileEmail: [email protected]: www.twoasianmatchmakers.comFacebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TwoAsianMatchmakersInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakermayTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asianmatchmaker88LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayhui/ABOUT THIS PODCAST: THE ASIAN DATING PODCASTWhat does Matchmaker May Do?You know how high-net-worth men are accomplished in their careers but too busy to date? They value time more than money, yet struggle to find meaningful connection. What I do is learn who they want to attract, screen the women for them, and make the introductions—so instead of wasting time, they meet the right woman and fall in love.May talks about all things dating and Asian dating. She’s super nosy about people’s love lives and just loves love. May is a Professional Matchmaker and Dating Coach. May is the founder of Two Asian Matchmakers, a boutique matchmaking agency. Since 2009, May has helped successful men who appreciate Asian culture and value meaningful connection find their ideal Asian partner in the United States and Asia.May is a highly respected and active member of the Matchmakers Alliance and Global Love Institute in New York. May’s insights and work have been featured in major media outlets including Cosmopolitan, Los Angeles Magazine, Thrillist, and Huffington Post, establishing her as a go-to expert in love, dating, and human connection.