Mark and Divan on why interpersonal communication matters

Introductory episode  for the Candour Communication Podcast. 0:28 - why start a podcast0:33 - learners not experts1:05 - ability to influence separated top performers2:10 - started learning about influence and leadership2:36 - interpersonal communication is a big part of leadership3:06 - could read books but wanted to grapple with the concepts in conversations3:46 - noticed many relationships where people seemed to be talking a different language6:31 - relationships are so important to our happiness and wellbeing7:13 - there is so much we don't know about communication but there are resources and experts out there to help us8:45 - terrified of public speaking since school10:49 - a different person at home: full on performer12:21 - a near death experience turned things around16:12 - how toastmasters helped build confidence17:15 - still get nervous when presenting18:16 - it's the human side that gets in the way of communication19:33 - communication is not an easy fix19:48 - being authentic vs putting on a show to perform21:33 - people want the real you22:33 - it's easier to take rejection when we're in character23:12 - being someone else is a heavy shield to carry25:13 - performing to succeed vs being yourself to connect26:05 - communication is hard because it's about balance26:44 - how we're hoping to help listeners28:13 - hoping to improve through continual awareness and practice