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EPISODE · Apr 14, 2026 · 49 MIN

Marriage Expert: Three Questions That Replace Years of Miscommunication & a New Way to Think About Resentment That Could Save Your Marriage

from IN IT with Jordan Harper and Ashley Buckler · host Barefaced / tentwentytwo

If you've ever looked at your husband and felt something closer to resentment than romance, you're not broken. Dr. Tracy is a couples therapist and psychologist who has spent nearly 20 years sitting across from couples with young kids, busy careers, and the creeping feeling that this wasn't what they signed up for. In this episode, she gets into the patterns that keep couples stuck, why resentment isn't a red flag but contempt is, and the three questions you can ask every night that replace years of miscommunication. We're taking notes. Dr. Tracy’s Website Dr. Tracy on Instagram Dr. Tracy’s relationship pattern quiz Dr. Tracy's Book: I didn’t sign up for this Eve Rodsky’s Fair Play Deck Follow Jordan Harper Follow Ashley Buckler Follow the In It Podcast on IG

If you've ever looked at your husband and felt something closer to resentment than romance, you're not broken. Dr. Tracy is a couples therapist and psychologist who has spent nearly 20 years sitting across from couples with young kids, busy careers, and the creeping feeling that this wasn't what they signed up for. In this episode, she gets into the patterns that keep couples stuck, why resentment isn't a red flag but contempt is, and the three questions you can ask every night that replace years of miscommunication. We're taking notes. Dr. Tracy’s Website Dr. Tracy on Instagram Dr. Tracy’s relationship pattern quiz Dr. Tracy's Book: I didn’t sign up for this Eve Rodsky’s Fair Play Deck Follow Jordan Harper Follow Ashley Buckler Follow the In It Podcast on IG

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