Marriage in Midlife: Why Couples Drift — and How to Reconnect | Amy Lombardi

Marriage changes over time — especially in midlife.In this Golden Era conversation of the In My Hometown podcast, Jamie and Pascal sit down with marriage and couples therapist Amy Lombardi to talk about what really keeps long-term relationships strong — and why couples sometimes start to drift.From communication styles to emotional and physical intimacy, we explore the patterns Amy sees in her work with couples and how relationships evolve as life changes.Jamie and Pascal also bring their own perspectives to the conversation — asking the questions many couples are thinking but don’t always say out loud.In this episode we talk about:• Why some couples grow closer while others slowly drift apart• Communication differences between men and women• Emotional vs. physical intimacy in long-term relationships• Navigating big life transitions like career shifts and empty nest• Keeping relationships interesting after many years together• Practical ways couples can reconnect when things feel offThey also get into what actually constitutes and affair. (spoiler: Pascal thinks paying an escort does not)Whether you’re married, partnered, divorced, or just thinking about relationships in midlife, this conversation is about love, partnership, and connection in the Golden EraSubscribe to In My Hometown for more conversations about relationships, reinvention, health, and life after 40.