marriage isn't a happily ever after, you need to create your own dream life first

hey yall! in this week's episode, i talk about the book i recently read "all the single ladies" by rebecca traister, discuss the pressure of getting married as a young woman, creating your own life, the pros and cons to marriage, a recent date storytime, & moreee! enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening! instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcast listen to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-rae tiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherself twitter: http://twitter.com/stellarae goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-rae my fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellarae join my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepod listen on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9 listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id1255618182 how i make my shorts using AI: https://klap.app/?via=stella #stellaraepodcast 00:00 - 03:37 y’all have to wrap up this “demure” stuff but also shoutout Jools 03:37 - 04:11 local coffee got me on one 04:11 - 10:31 things that happen once your brain is fully developed 10:31 - 14:20 is any marriage at all better than being single? 14:20 - 24:46 creating a solid foundation of a life for yourself before getting married 24:46 - 37:31 another date storytime, guys that don’t read, red flags, last thoughts