Married to Medicine: Love, Trauma & Starting Over

What happens when two doctors try to balance trauma, marriage… and real life?This episode goes way deeper than medicine.In this episode of The Device Girls, we sit down with Dr. Brian Kendall (ER physician) and Dr. Renee Bankhead (trauma surgeon) to talk about what life really looks like inside a dual-physician household.From navigating intense careers to going through divorce… and finding their way back to each other — this conversation is raw, honest, and surprisingly relatable.They open up about what patients don’t understand, what Covid was really like behind hospital doors, and the emotional weight that comes with a life spent saving others.In this episode, we dive into:• What it’s actually like being married to another physician• Their divorce… and how they found their way back• ER vs trauma surgery (and who really has it harder 👀)• What doctors wish patients understood• The emotional toll of medicine — especially during Covid• How they balance family, careers, and entrepreneurship“If you died today, you’d be replaced in the hospital tomorrow… but your family can never replace you.”Chapters:00:00 Intro00:45 Meet Dr. Kendall & Dr. Bankhead02:30 Their journey into medicine04:50 Why ER vs trauma surgery07:50 Balancing a dual-physician household09:50 Divorce… and getting remarried12:50 What patients don’t understand about doctors15:50 Burnout, loss, and emotional weight of medicine20:10 What Covid was really like for physicians27:10 Their businesses outside of medicine31:30 ER vs Trauma: who has it harder?35:20 Advice for couples in medicine38:20 OutroFollow The Device Girls:📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thedevicegirls🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thedevicegirls▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheDEVICEGirlsHosts:Sarah – https://www.instagram.com/sarahekruseHaley – https://www.instagram.com/haleyygibssonfitGuests:Dr. Brian Kendall – Emergency Medicine PhysicianDr. Renee Bankhead – Trauma Surgeon | ICU Doctor | Entrepreneur🎙️ Podcast: Coffee Walk MDIf you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share it with someone who needs to hear this.We’d love to know — what part of this conversation surprised you the most?#TheDeviceGirls #WomenInMedicine #ERDoctor #TraumaSurgeon #HealthcareLife #PodcastClips #MedicalLife