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Jan 14, 2024 44 min

Matthew: Handle Conflict The Right Way

from Northgate Hosted by Pastor Jeff Bachman

What did you think of today's message? When a bingo game at a wedding I officiated led to a full-blown conflict with another pastor, my journey into the heart of conflict resolution in the Christian community began. This episode brings to light the challenges and opportunities we face when addressing conflict and sin within our churches. Through personal stories and biblical exploration, we discuss how to approach these delicate situations with grace, aiming for restoration rather than punishment. It's a candid look at the transformative power of love and the steps we can take to foster healing and growth in our faith communities. Navigating conflict can be as tricky as deciphering a teenager's text messages, but it's a crucial part of building a strong, caring community. We unravel the intricacies of Matthew 18, inviting a spirit of empathy into the difficult conversations we must sometimes have. This episode isn't just about correcting each other; it's about the way we do it—reflecting Jesus's heart in every step. From the personal to the communal, we explore how accountability, handled with care, shapes a grace-filled environment where everyone is welcome to explore their faith. Lastly, we turn our focus to the outsiders, the 'pagans and tax collectors' of our time, and how our outreach and conflict resolution tactics can truly embody the love of Christ. We share stories of community events and personal interactions that show the profound impact of extending grace, modeling what it means to live as Jesus taught us. Join us as we consider how to represent His teachings in our relationships within the church, and be the agents of inclusion and transformation we are called to be. Support the show With Northgate Online, you can join us every Sunday live at 9:00a and 11:00a, and our gatherings are available on-demand starting at 7p! Join us at https://thisis.church Subscribe to our channel to see more messages from Northgate: https://www.youtube.com/@Northgate2201 — If you would like to give, visit https://thisis.church/give/ — Check out our Care Ministries for prayer, food pantry, memorial services and more at https://thisis.church/care — You are welcome at Northgate just like you are. Life may be going great for you or you may have hurts, hang-ups, and habits. No matter where you are on your spiritual journey, you are welcome at Northgate. We value the process of journey. We believe in the transformative power of Christ. Northgate has a clear vision of transforming our homes, communities, and world by Pursuing God, Building Community, and Unleashing Compassion. — Follow Northgate on Instagram: https://instgram.com/ngatecf Follow Northgate on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThisIsNorthgate/ Follow Larry Davis: https://www.instagram.com/sirlawrencedavis Subscribe to Northgate's Podcast (Apple): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/northgate/id1583512612 Subscribe to Northgate's Podcast (Google): https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkcy5idXp6c3Byb3V0LmNvbS81ODE2ODAucnNz Share your experience with Northgate by leaving a review: https://g.page/r/CRHE7UBydhxzEBM/review ...

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What did you think of today's message? When a bingo game at a wedding I officiated led to a full-blown conflict with another pastor, my journey into the heart of conflict resolution in the Christian community began. This episode brings to light the challenges and opportunities we face when addressing conflict and sin within our churches. Through personal stories and biblical exploration, we discuss how to approach these delicate situations with grace, aiming for restoration rather than punish...

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Matthew: Handle Conflict The Right Way

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  1. 0:00 Conflict Resolution in Christian Community
  2. 8:36 Restoration and Love in Community
  3. 16:58 Sin, Conflict, Grace in the Church
  4. 22:07 Conflict Resolution in the Church
  5. 28:49 Love for Pagans and Tax Collectors
  6. 35:54 Living in Community and Handling Conflict
  7. 41:55 Confronting Sin and Building Community

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