Maybe a Little Less Honesty Debate At 8

Is someone really bad for messaging an ex happy birthday? AJ commends those in divorces for trying to have some semblance of a relationship with their ex-spouses, but missed one crucial detail in the message. Being honest is important, but brutally is defined as (in a savage or violent way) and that doesn't sound pleasant. One listener is at her wit's end with her friend's 'empowerment' campaign.