Maybe Being Alone Is What You Need

*]:pointer-events-auto [content-visibility:auto] supports-[content-visibility:auto]:[contain-intrinsic-size:auto_100lvh] R6Vx5W_threadScrollVars scroll-mb-[calc(var(--scroll-root-safe-area-inset-bottom,0px)+var(--thread-response-height))] scroll-mt-[calc(var(--header-height)+min(200px,max(70px,20svh)))]" dir="auto" data-turn-id= "request-WEB:9d2bb51d-480e-47b2-8086-67a7c9235e37-18" data-testid= "conversation-turn-38" data-scroll-anchor="false" data-turn= "assistant"> Why are we so scared to be alone… that we stay in situations that slowly drain us? In this episode of Spill the Beans, we get real about the fear of being alone and how it shapes our decisions during Life in Your 20s. From relationships to everyday choices, we unpack the emotional dynamics that keep us holding on—even when we know something isn't right—especially through our college life experiences. This is one of those unfiltered talks where we don't just call out the problem—we reflect on it. We talk about choosing comfort over peace, ignoring our own needs, and the importance of finally putting ourselves first. Perspectives shaped by cultural diversity also influence how we view independence, self-worth, and what it really means to stand on your own. At some point, you have to ask yourself… when was the last time you truly chose you? 🎧 Take this as your reminder—check in with yourself, protect your peace, and don't lose yourself trying to avoid being alone.