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EPISODE · May 7, 2026 · 44 MIN

Meet Her Needs, Not Just Her Wants | A Breakdown for Men on Dating a Woman

from Unpacked & Unfiltered | Travel, Modern Spirituality, and Real Girl Talk · host Bexx & Noie

Have you ever been told your standards for dating are too high? They’re not. The problem usually isn’t having standards—it’s not knowing the difference between what you want and what you actually need.Bexx and Noie dive into what women actually need versus what they think they want in a relationship. Drawing from Psychology Today, they break down why so many women end up emotionally exhausted in relationships, and why confusing "wants" for deeper "needs" is one of the most common traps women fall into when dating.Bexx and Noie walk through five core needs that keep women in relationships, and why even the most charming, attractive partner can't sustain a lasting connection without them. They explore the lighter side with a discussion of "wants" and debate whether sexual chemistry belongs in the needs column after all.Chapters [Start] Needs vs. Wants: What initially attracts a woman to a relationship and what actually keeps her in it.11:39 Need Number 1: Introducing the first of five core needs, based on insights from Psychology Today.14:55 Need Number 2: The role of consistency and why it matters.23:32 Need Number 3: What women require from their partner to feel supported.29:14 Need Number 4: The importance of a man’s intentional choice in a relationship.32:29 Need Number 5: The final need, highlighting the role of conflict resolution in maintaining a healthy relationship.Links and ResourcesConnect With & Follow UsInstagramUnpacked and UnfilteredSunnybexxMommaNoieTikTokUnpacked and UnfilteredSunnybexxMommaNoieYoutubeUnpacked and Unfiltered SunnybexxMommaNoie

Have you ever been told your standards for dating are too high? They’re not. The problem usually isn’t having standards—it’s not knowing the difference between what you want and what you actually need.Bexx and Noie dive into what women actually need versus what they think they want in a relationship. Drawing from Psychology Today, they break down why so many women end up emotionally exhausted in relationships, and why confusing "wants" for deeper "needs" is one of the most common traps women fall into when dating.Bexx and Noie walk through five core needs that keep women in relationships, and why even the most charming, attractive partner can't sustain a lasting connection without them. They explore the lighter side with a discussion of "wants" and debate whether sexual chemistry belongs in the needs column after all.Chapters [Start] Needs vs. Wants: What initially attracts a woman to a relationship and what actually keeps her in it.11:39 Need Number 1: Introducing the first of five core needs, based on insights from Psychology Today.14:55 Need Number 2: The role of consistency and why it matters.23:32 Need Number 3: What women require from their partner to feel supported.29:14 Need Number 4: The importance of a man’s intentional choice in a relationship.32:29 Need Number 5: The final need, highlighting the role of conflict resolution in maintaining a healthy relationship.Links and ResourcesConnect With & Follow UsInstagramUnpacked and UnfilteredSunnybexxMommaNoieTikTokUnpacked and UnfilteredSunnybexxMommaNoieYoutubeUnpacked and Unfiltered SunnybexxMommaNoie

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