Soul Care Series: Men and Past Hurts with Greg Wilson

Dr. Greg Wilson is a licensed professional counselor, consultant, author, and esteemed advocate in the field of mental health and spiritual growth. With considerable experience counseling victims and perpetrators of domestic abuse, Dr. Wilson specializes in a myriad of issues concerning men’s and adolescent mental health and addictions. He leads ⁠Soul Care Associates⁠ in the Dallas Fort Worth area, putting into practice his clinical expertise from a Christ-centered perspective. Highlighting his contributions to the community, Dr. Wilson is also the co-author of "⁠My Home Hurts⁠," offering guidance for wise responses to domestic abuse within the church.Episode Summary:Jared is joined once again by Dr. Greg Wilson, a seasoned professional in the realm of psychological counseling and trauma healing. Together, they dive deep into the prevalent topic of trauma, dissecting its impacts on men, particularly Christian men striving to live faithfully and lead courageously. Dr. Wilson shares his insights on how past traumatic experiences shape our present and future, emphasizing the importance of addressing these wounds head-on. Throughout the conversation, key themes such as forgiveness, the power of words, and the necessity of storytelling in healing emerge prominently. Key Takeaways: Understanding Trauma: Trauma is defined not by the event itself but by the internal wound it leaves behind. This understanding is crucial in recognizing and addressing past hurts. The Power of Words: Words, especially those from spiritual mentors and parents, can have long-lasting traumatic effects. It’s essential to speak life-affirming and encouraging words. Forgiveness as Healing: Practicing vertical forgiveness between oneself and God is crucial, even when horizontal reconciliation with the perpetrator is not possible. Community and Vulnerability: Healing happens in community. Sharing your story with trusted individuals helps in processing and overcoming past hurts. Seeking Professional Help: Finding a qualified counselor with a shared worldview can be beneficial in addressing deep-seated trauma.Notable Quotes: "Trauma is not the thing that happened to you, but what happened in you as a result of that event." – Dr. Greg Wilson "We have the power of life and death in our words. It’s about choosing to speak life over someone rather than lies." – Dr. Greg Wilson "Every time we forgive, we revisit what God has done for us in Christ." – Dr. Greg Wilson "Healing from past hurts requires engaging in community and vulnerability, sharing your story with others." – Jared MusgroveSponsors:If you're interested in making a meaningful impact this summer, visit their websites to apply today:⁠Student Life⁠⁠: https://studentlife.lifeway.com/FUGE: https://fugecamps.lifeway.com/⁠⁠CentriKid: ⁠https://centrikid.lifeway.com/Reliant Mission offers the perfect solution by helping you create financially support-based residencies tailored to your organization's needs. If you’re looking to expand your team and impact, visit ⁠https://reliant.org/partner%E2%81%A0 to learn more about how Reliant Mission can support your efforts.Southern Seminary's Master of Divinity is the best way to prepare for ministry, and it is now more effective than ever.SUPPORT Man to Men by visiting ⁠⁠https://byx.org/give/⁠⁠ and become an INDIVIDUAL PARTNERFollow Man to Men & Beta Upsilon Chi:⁠⁠⁠⁠X,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook,⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn, ⁠⁠⁠⁠and ⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠Produced by⁠⁠⁠⁠ The Good Podcast Co.⁠⁠⁠⁠