Men and Women should never get married, it doesn’t work

Observations By Ian C Jordan Feel Free to put on the playlist while you read my short. My Aunts service today was beautiful. It made me think about how things are different now. There should be a great joy in taking care of each other. People are so selfish sometimes and in 2023 is a long way from 1937 when she was born. Men and women a lot of the time think it is weak to take care of someone. In some cases the person is just selfish……. That goes to every aspect. Think about your life, how you treated someone unfiltered. I know I’m not perfect, and I’m guilty of treating people how they treat me. If you are selfish to me that is how I will be right back. For instance with the ladies, you all give sometimes when it’s something easy. A lot of you won’t give in regard to money or if it’s something that’s too hard. That goes from picking up something you know your partner wants at the grocery store to the bedroom. I’m not perfect, but when I was with my kids mom I remembered to buy grapes because she would freeze them and I spent a small fortune on Starbucks just because she likes it. The truth I’ve seen and hear from alot of men is that their women will give comfortably. She might let you drive her car because her tank is empty. Or she will go to the store with your credit card but "forget " to give it back and use it. Or sexually you make sure her needs are met but she goes to sleep without meeting your needs. Or she goes through the motions to make it seem like she is trying to handle business but she does things so bad you would rather do it yourself. Then she or he wonders why you have an attitude. Adults still play games and the real ones, not the self proclaimed bosses or boss chicks, or the selfish modern women that doesn't understand that a man's role is to protect and hers is to nurture, or doesn't want to play her position proudly ........ That has nothing to do with money. If you have a woman or man that you know if you need money from will not hesitate to get you out of jam, a person that will won't let you go to sleep unsatisfied, a person that will have your back no matter what you better keep them . Because that shit almost doesn't exist. 68 years my Aunt was married to my Uncle and I'm sure it wasn't perfect but it was perfection. Good Night https://youtube.com/playlist?l...