Men Behaving Badly

It’s been one of those weeks where the headlines feel less like isolated incidents and more like a pattern you can’t ignore. In this episode, we sit with that discomfort—talking through the latest examples of powerful men facing consequences (finally), and the deeper systems that allowed their behavior to persist in the first place. We get into the frustration of “open secrets,” the power dynamics that keep people silent, and the cultural reflex to protect men’s reputations over women’s experiences. Aaron brings in a perspective on what responsibility looks like among men themselves, not just privately disagreeing with bad behavior, but actively calling it out. Because if the culture is going to shift, men need to step up and take action. And because we’re us, we don’t stay in the heaviness the whole time. We also share a genuinely joyful counterpoint: a moment of lightness and humanity from two men, Barack Obama and Zohran Mamdani, that reminded us that masculinity can be playful, present, and deeply human. We wrap, as always, with a few ways to take action this week (especially for Californians following the gubernatorial race), and our “joyful moments” segment—because even in weeks like this, there are still small, meaningful bright spots. If you’re feeling frustrated, angry, or just trying to make sense of it all, this one’s for you. 👉 Give it a listen, and let us know what resonated: [email protected]👉 And if you haven’t yet, we’d love your thoughts here: survey.acouplethinks.com Get full access to A Couple Thinks at acouplethinks.substack.com/subscribe