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EPISODE · Sep 29, 2025 · 54 MIN

Men Had No Idea Women Did These Things

from we are NOT the SAME · host Heather Gardner and Lacey Joseph

Send us Fan MailEver wondered what goes through a man's mind when he first discovers your collection of hair ties scattered throughout the house? Or the moment he realizes those cute jeans you're wearing don't have real pockets? In this laugh-out-loud episode, we dive into the world of male enlightenment that happens when men enter relationships with women. From the shocking revelation that women use substantially more toilet paper (not just for shaking dry, gentlemen!) to the baffling discovery of how expensive bras actually are, we explore the Reddit threads where men confess what they never knew before getting a girlfriend.We share our own experiences and observations, including the telltale sign that a man is in a relationship: the distinct scent of fabric softener. As it turns out, single men rarely invest in Unstoppables or Febreze beads! We also tackle the mystery of women's hair – how we can lose what seems like pounds of it daily without going bald, and why bobby pins seem to multiply exponentially throughout living spaces.Beyond the humor, we delve into deeper relationship dynamics: the importance of asking "do you want comfort or solutions?" when your partner is venting, the challenge of vulnerability in relationships, and the different ways men and women approach problem-solving. We even share some thought-provoking questions couples can ask each other to deepen their connection.Whether you're single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between, you'll find yourself nodding along or laughing out loud at these universal truths about gender differences and the beautiful chaos that happens when we share our lives with others. Listen now and let us know: what surprised YOU most about living with someone of the opposite gender? -Support the show

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