Lagos Dominatrix Explains Why Men Pay to Be Controlled | Domina Havi | ITASS

Domina Havi is a Lagos-based dominatrix — and she's here to explain everything. Why do successful Nigerian men pay to be controlled? What does a session actually involve? And how did she build a business around it? This is one of the most honest conversations about male psychology, power dynamics, and modern relationships in Nigeria.In this episode we cover:- What a dominatrix actually does - online and in person- The psychology of why men seek control and dominance- How Domina Havi built a business around this in Lagos- Power dynamics and gender expectations in Nigerian society- How she handles client boundaries and safety- What surprised her most about her clientsSubscribe and join the conversation! Share this episode with someone who needs to hear it.Join the conversation using: #ITASS #ITASSPodInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/itass_podX (Twitter): https://www.twitter.com/ITASS_YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@IsthisasafespacepodTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itasspodSubstack: https://www.osasbaby.substack.com#Dominatrix #LagosDominatrix #PowerDynamics #NigerianPodcast #TabooConversations #LagosPodcast #ITASSPod #IsThisASafeSpace #MaleSubjects #NigerianRelationships #ModernRelationships #DominaHavi #ITASSSeason3