Men Want To Settle

Why do men want to settle with who they are going to be? Why do so many men tell me what my job is while they can't keep a good credit score or a job? Men tell me my job is to have babies but expect me to be happy living off of their minimum wage but mad when I want to pursue my passions. On the other hand, men want me to pursue my passions and tell me they want to be my sugar baby but get made when I say that is not an option. Why do men settle with their expectations of themselves and in return want women to do less or do more in order to take advantage of them.