Mental Health Hot Takes #3

Dr Kirk Honda reacts to mental health hot takes from the listeners. November 19, 2025This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month.00:00 Intro01:16 There should be therapy for friends03:55 Therapists incentivise their clients to act immorally 04:41 Self improvement is a loop that leads to dissatisfaction 05:37 There is a lack of resilience of those born after 199012:09 Highlighting your inner child implies adults shouldn't act like that 13:36 Modalities of therapy are just placebo14:57 Post-partum is just pathologizing women  18:24 People with high trauma & anxiety hide behind introversion21:46 Diffusion of mental health concepts complicates conversation22:09 Psychopaths can be good people24:35 Too many people have ADHD24:55 Poor mental health is persisted by poor living conditions27:13 Licensed experts should have social media badges 31:55 People need to learn how to deal with discomfort32:17 Disassociation should be prevented34:38 'I don't owe anyone anything' makes society cold35:09 Caring vs. worrying for myself35:41 Pathology vs human experience37:26 Some cultures need less therapy38:14 Self diagnosis should not be taken seriously38:35 Jungian typology is helpful38:46 Emergency responders struggle the most with their relationships40:35 Those that put others above themself care less about themself40:57 Empowering women intimidates men 42:09 Too much therapy can be harmful42:45 Beating yourself doesn't lead to healing43:12 Avoiding hugs is from trauma47:26 There is no such thing as faking mental illness for attention 51:08 Online dating advice is useless 53:39 You can be autistic and an asshole54:24 Not showing up for your friends isn't holding boundariesBecome a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/joinBecome a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattleEmail: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contactWebsite: https://www.psychologyinseattle.comMerch: https://psychologyinseattle-shop.fourthwall.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psychologyinseattle/Facebook Official Page: https://www.facebook.com/PsychologyInSeattle/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kirk.hondaThe Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counselor-client relationship. Topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate (by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting) you must do so with the knowledge that we cannot control reactions or responses from others, which may not agree with you or feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, accepting full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything yo