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EPISODE · Feb 13, 2026 · 47 MIN

Messy Middle

from Hey Queen, Flourish! · host debbiej2

Today’s episode is a little different — and I’m really excited about it. Because today, I have a man on the show. And before anyone says, “Well… duh,” let me explain why that matters. On Radical Responsibility Revolution, we talk a lot about balance — feminine and masculine energy, emotional truth, responsibility, intimacy, and what it actually means to live awake and aligned. And here’s the truth most people won’t say out loud: Men haven’t exactly been given a safe or honest roadmap for that conversation. Today’s guest, Jon Kohrs, is one of those rare men who is willing to go there — into the messy middle, into shame, into love, into fatherhood, into addiction, into spirituality, and into what it really means to be human without the mask. Jon is the author of Horribly Lovely, a raw, poetic, deeply vulnerable book that reads like a window into the inner world of a man doing his best to wake himself up — not as a guru, not as a hero, but as a real, flawed, self-aware human being. This is a conversation about masculinity, femininity, shame, intimacy, fatherhood, spiritual bypassing, redemption, and what happens when we stop pretending we have it all together. And honestly? This is the kind of conversation the world needs more of. Let’s dive in. Grab Your Complimentary copy of Your Inner Billionaire: Book Link Connect with Jon: Website: https://horriblylovely.com/ Free Gift/Assessment: Messiness quiz: horriblylovely.com. Social Media Links Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hatchedinlove LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jonkohrs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@unhatchd Official Bio: Jonathan Kohrs writes using the Enneagram to express the depth and lived experience of the art of transformation. He aspires to weave together spiritual and psychological narratives that are human, honest and uncomfortable. Jonathan is also a design coach, consultant and teacher, helping organizational teams at the brink work in a whole new way. Using the Enneagram, teams unlearn old ways of working by relearning new ways of being. Within his life, a paradox has existed, two sides always competing and unable to integrate as one. He continues to live into it, facing his own dualistic nature by being unapologetically authentic in how we love one another and ourselves. #dualisticnature #dualism #designcoach #organizationalteams #Enneagram #enneagramforteams #artoftransformation #unapologeticallyauthentic

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