Microaggressions Add Up Like Daily Paper Cuts (part 1)

Send us Fan MailA compliment that makes your stomach drop is still a problem, even if the speaker “meant well.” We unpack microaggressions, those subtle comments and behaviors that communicate bias, and we explain why they’re called micro even though the impact can be anything but small. Along the way, we give real examples you’ve heard at work, in public, and online, like “you’re so articulate,” “you’re surprisingly confident,” “I don’t see color,” and the passive aggressive habit of not bothering to learn someone’s name.We also talk about what repeated microaggressions do to your mental health. Think of them like paper cuts: one is annoying, but daily paper cuts create real pain. That buildup can lead to anxiety, self doubt, emotional fatigue, and the exhausting inner debate of “Did I imagine that?” We get into why this happens so often, including unconscious bias and learned mental shortcuts, and why good intentions don’t cancel the harm.Then we turn it practical. If you’re on the receiving end, we walk through steps to pause, validate what you felt, and name the issue so a real conversation can happen. If you realize you’ve said something that landed wrong, we lay out a clean repair: listen without defensiveness, apologize without qualification, and learn and adjust. Plus, a winner of the week story about a guide dog named Jerry who helps detect a dangerous blood clot, and a quick spotlight on Rio who needs a home. Subscribe, share this with a friend, and leave us a review so more people can find the show.Recorded 4-6-26FIND ME:My Website: https://motorcityhypnotist.com/podcastMy social media links: Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/motorcityhypnotist/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCCjjLNcNvSYzfeX0uHqe3gATwitter: https://twitter.com/motorcityhypnoInstagram: motorcityhypnoFREE HYPNOSIS GUIDEhttps://detroithypnotist.convertri.com/podcast-free-hypnosis-guidePlease also subscribe to the show and leave a review.(Stay with me as later in the podcast, I’ll be giving away a free gift to all listeners!)Change your thinking, change your life!Laugh hard, run fast, be kind.  David R. Wright MA, LPC, CHTThe Motor City Hypnotist