Military Desertion, 8-Hour Interrogations & Sleeping Rough: My Path from Ghana to Cambodia

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Babes, How Did You Get Here? | Kofi: From Ghanaian Military Nurse to Street Photographer in Cambodia – A Story of Survival, Love, and Reinvention What happens when a military nurse from Ghana goes AWOL, books a one-way ticket to Indonesia, gets interrogated at the airport for eight hours, loses his passport in Cambodia, sleeps on the streets for three months, and somehow ends up married to a Korean woman with a baby and a thriving photography career? In this raw, unfiltered, and deeply inspiring episode, host April Jackson sits down with Kofi—a Ghanaian ex-military nurse, street photographer, certified personal trainer, and now a husband and father living in Phnom Penh, Cambodia. From joining the Air Force to escape the pharmaceutical industry, to going AWOL after four years of "yes sir, yes sir," to landing in Jakarta and facing racism at immigration, to losing his passport and living in Amazon Coffee Shop for months, to meeting his wife in a tattoo shop and building a life between Cambodia and Korea—Kofi's story is one of resilience, reinvention, and choosing peace of mind over safety every single time. In this episode, we discuss: The Nephew Who Changed Everything: Losing his five-year-old nephew because of a refusal to do blood transfusions, and how that tragedy led him to nursing. Joining the Military as a Nurse: How the promise of double salary led to a 25-year contract he never planned to finish. Four Years of "Yes Sir": The exhaustion of military nursing, the conflict between caregiving and following orders, and why he couldn't do it anymore. Going AWOL: Booking a flight to Indonesia without permission, leaving the Ghanaian Air Force behind, and never looking back. Eight Hours at Jakarta Airport: Being interrogated, accused of being Nigerian, asked to sing the national anthem, and finally released after proving he was a former Marine. Losing His Passport in Cambodia: Trusting a school with his documents, having them "lost" on a ferry, and spending years trying to get it back. Three Months Sleeping in Amazon Coffee Shop: Living on the streets of Phnom Penh, showering in public bathrooms, and refusing to ask his dad for help. The $10-a-Day Overstay Fee: Saving every dollar to pay off his illegal stay, even without a passport. Meeting His Wife in a Tattoo Shop: How a mutual friend connected them, why they broke up, and how he reinvented himself to win her back. Building a Photography Career from Scratch: From borrowing a camera to shooting weddings in Ghana, to becoming a street photographer in Cambodia, to working in Korean fashion. The Market as His Studio: Why he shoots in local markets, how he learned Khmer from old ladies selling vegetables, and why documentary photography is his calling. Marrying a Korean Woman: Navigating cultural differences, learning Korean from his father-in-law, and why his wife taught him to say no to low-paying jobs. Becoming a Father: Having a baby in Korea, getting a Korean passport for his daughter, and deciding to raise her in Cambodia. Food as Medicine: Why he cooks every meal from scratch, how nutrition and dietetics changed his life, and why he refuses to give his baby processed food. Life Between Cambodia and Korea: Why Cambodia is home for now, why Korea offers better work opportunities, and how he plans to split his time between both countries. Why Cambodia?: The freedom, the honesty, the cost of living, and why it's the perfect place to build a life from scratch. 📚 For more details on parenting course: https://april-s-site-fcfd.thinkific.com #HowDidYouGetHere #AprilJackson #CambodiaLiving #PhnomPenh #GhanaianInCambodia #ExMilitary #AWOL #StreetPhotography #KoreanWife #MulticulturalFamily #ExpatLife #Reinvention #MilitaryNurse #DocumentaryPhotography #FoodAsMedicine #SurvivalStory #CourageOverComfort #SoutheastAsia #interculturalmarriage 00:00 Introduction: A Ghanaian Military Nurse's Journey to Cambodia 04:00 Escape from the Military: The AWOL Decision 07:00 Airport Nightmare: Eight Hours of Interrogation in Indonesia 09:20 Finding Cambodia: A Warm Welcome After Indonesia 12:00 Lost Passport Crisis: Living Undocumented in Cambodia 16:00 Surviving in the Streets: Three Months at Amazon Cafe 21:40 The Photography Breakthrough: Benjamin's Trust 29:20 Cultural Differences: Ghana vs Cambodia vs Korea 35:40 Meeting His Korean Wife: From Tattoo Shop to True Love 45:40 Becoming a Father: Raising a Multicultural Child 1:01:20 Food as Medicine: From Military Nurse to Nutrition Advocate 1:08:50 Photography in Cambodia: The Reality of the Industry 1:01:20 Growing Up Ghanaian: Work, Farm, Church, Repeat 1:44:50 The Postcard of Life: From Tragedy to Triumph

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