The Orgasm Gap: Why Women Are Still Being Left Behind

Why do men report reaching orgasm far more often than women during partnered sex—and what can we do about it? In this honest, humorous, and thought-provoking episode of The Women Are Plotting, Etienne Rose Olivier, Heidi Willis, and Jane Gari dive into the reality of the "orgasm gap." Drawing on current research and their own personal experiences, they explore why so many women struggle to prioritize their own pleasure, how communication and trust shape intimacy, and why mutual satisfaction should be the goal in every healthy relationship. The conversation covers everything from first orgasms and sexual education to confidence, vulnerability, pornography, long-term relationships, and the importance of advocating for your own needs. Along the way, the hosts share funny, candid stories while offering practical insights into creating stronger emotional and physical connections with a partner. Whether you're single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, this episode is an open, judgment-free discussion about intimacy, communication, and why better conversations can lead to better sex. Send us Fan Mail Email us at [email protected], and find us on all the socials. Be safe and be excellent to each other.