Mismatched Libido, Manscaping & Relationship Advice That Actually Helps

Send us Fan MailWhat do you do when one person wants sex more than the other? This week on Slut in Training, we're joined by Nicholas Berry, a gay millennial psychotherapist and sex & relationship coach, to talk about one of the most common relationship struggles: mismatched libido.From communication and intimacy to manscaping, kinks, confidence, and how to actually ask for what you want, this episode is equal parts funny, honest, and wildly useful. We get into how to handle different libido styles, what keeps couples feeling disconnected, and the simple but uncomfortable truth: most people were never taught how to talk about sex.We also cover:How to express your needs in a relationshipWays to spice things up when intimacy feels staleManscaping debates, body image, and attractionWild hookup stories and what they teach usRelationship advice for anyone who feels like they have no idea what they’re doingIf you’re navigating love, sex, communication, or long-term relationship dynamics—press play.Timestamps - Episode Highlights0:00 – Welcome to the show: Slutty word of the episode – Lucky Pierre3:44 – Introducing Nicholas Berry – the gay millennial psychotherapist and sex andrelationship coach6:27 – Therapy themes from communication to libido styles – how to deal with a mixedlibido relationship7:09 – The spectrum from asexual partners to more sexual partners that are not havingtheir needs met7:42 – Being raised by a mom and how she didn’t ask or expect her needs to be met8:20 – How the sex talk started for Nicholas in a Walden Books store9:22 – How to deal with different libido styles starts with expressing how you are feelingand feeling safe to do that11:37 – Manscaping advice needed! Dolphin smooth versus a Chewbacca bush14:14 – Green light - a pattern chest piece and skin tone perfect combination16:37 – Try a manscaping gift card for your husband or have them watch Queer Eye forthe Straight Guy!17:12 – Kinky things to help spice up a relationship – normalizing what he learned in hissexual career to help couples18:38 – Craziest places Nick had sex!20:48 – The low down in Penis size – long and skinny to beer can26:32 – Advice you would give your younger self about relationships and intimacy – it’sok to have no idea what you are doing and its ok to walk away!Slut in Training: Saving One Bedroom at a Time.Join us, learn, and listen about sexual health, couples, women, female issues, dating, viral skincare, and improving sexual confidence.+ Subscribe for bi-monthly episodes.+ Follow the show so you don't miss episodes on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify.Hosted by: Missy Greenberg, Jordan Carlson & Tania RossProduced by: Missy GreenbergEdited by: Charles E. BeckerFollow on:IG: @thenotfromheremediaMerch: www.notfromheremedia.comTikTok: @notfromheremedia  Resources and mentions: Follow Nickolas Berry – Instagram @thegaymillennialtherapistPsychology Today - link tohttps://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/nicholas-berry-los-angeles-ca/412054https://www.nicholasberrypsychotherapy.comSupport the show