Modern Gay Men WITH Jordan & Tony: Dating as a Gay Man, Not Being Accepted By Family and Coming Out

In this week’s episode of The Queerly Blax Show, I had a conversation with Jordan and Tony of the Surface Level podcast about living as a modern gay man. We talked about everything from coming out stories, stuggles with family, dating as a gay man and so much more. Check it out!0:10 – Introductions by Jordan & Tony1:52- Tony & Jordan’s coming out stories8:49 – Parents and families as allies when you are gay12:03- Helping parents accept LGBT children13:56- The black LGBT burden19:46- Talking about the Surface Level Podcast24:10- Fat phobia in the gay community26:36- Dating in a transient city (New York and LA)31:10- Non monogamy in modern black LGBT dating32:30- The process of self-reflection after a relationship ends38:30- Are they gold star gay?39:11- Tony’s experience with an engaged man41:06- Black gay culture at Howard48:40- Jordan and Tony’s advice to black gay people struggling with their queernessSocial MediaQueerly Blax @queerlybalxSurface Level Podcast @surfacelevelpodcast