Modern Women vs Masculine Men? Dr. Sarah Fontenot Says “Your Trauma Is Blocking Love”

WATCH NOW: https://youtu.be/eiPBKWvxPjUSome conversations don’t just sound good… they shift you.In this episode of The Love You Moore Show, I sat down with Dr. Sarah Fontenot (straight outta Saskatchewan, Canada) and we went all the way in on what’s REALLY breaking relationships in 2025.We talked about:• why so many people choose partners out of pressure, trauma, and fear• the difference between high-earning and high-value• how women can communicate needs without going to war• why men feel like they have to stay “tough” and how that’s costing us• and what it actually looks like to build peace, alignment, and a relationship rooted in GodAnd listen… when she broke down the “logic vs emotion” gap, and how masculinity and femininity collide when we don’t know how to repair conflict? Whew. It got REAL in that room.If you’re dating, married, divorced, healing, or trying to do it right this time—this one is for you.✅ Make sure you subscribe, share, and drop in the comments what part hit you the hardest.00:00 – Why women choose relationships (pressure vs alignment)02:15 – Willie’s “icebreaker” + relationship song moment04:16 – Proposed to twice… why she said “hold up”06:30 – “Talk is cheap” + vetting process shifting08:12 – Breadcrumbs, therapy, and choosing yourself08:48 – “40 is knocking” + success vs family question10:37 – High earning women + attracting the man you say you want12:18 – “Put your trauma down” (bars)14:32 – If he falls off financially… will she still love him?16:24 – Not demonizing women, nature, safety, and security18:10 – What she won’t bring into her future relationship19:50 – “I never saw my parents fight… so I didn’t learn repair”21:35 – Cues, triggers, and emotional regulation (neck gets hot)24:00 – Gottman’s Four Horsemen explained26:06 – How women can communicate needs without conflict28:14 – Men feeling unappreciated + staffing the home29:31 – Hack for men: logic won’t work with emotion32:42 – “Say sorry” without defensiveness (real-time example)37:05 – Audience reaction: “We don’t care about the track record!”41:30 – Boundaries + respect: what happens when she keeps going45:04 – Femininity tests + why it’s really about safety50:01 – Marriage feels like death sometimes (real talk)52:03 – When vulnerability gets used in arguments55:54 – Willie’s boundary: no late-night conflict, protect her heart58:12 – Creating safety during conflict + repair01:04:24 – How do we help Black men heal from “toughness”?01:10:24 – “Do I still want marriage?” Vision for the next season01:15:01 – Celibacy, choosing right, and honoring yourself01:16:15 – Willie’s closing: reframe the pain, love you more✨ Connect with us:Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=32743148📲 Instagram | Facebook | Twitter/X: @LoveYouMooreShow🌐 Visit our website for exclusive content: LoveYouMooreShow.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/love-you-moore-with-willie-moore-jr/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy